Imagine you have everything you want to hit that magic button. You extend your hand to press it but one thing keeps your mind from the actual act: pressing the button. You look, it is there and no one else is trying to reach for it, but still your mind is not ready to accept that you have made it.
The only reason that might explain why you have not yet decided to press the button is the fact that you are not yet free from self restrains and lack of will to see the better side of every struggle in life. So doubtful that the expected change could bring in more suffering than joy— living a life of self denial.
Have you ever faced such challenges in life? If yes! Then make you first decision to explore yourself much better. You know what; an enemy to your success is self pity and lack of confidence in yourself.
Actually, a good number of people face this problem and if something is not done with it, it becomes part of life and this leads to ‘suicide mission’ for every attempt one makes in life.
Overcoming lack of self-confidence is not easy, one has to feel the need to change and this includes avoiding all negative things (ideas) that might keep one from accomplishing personal desires. For example, you want to be a blogger, but your fear that your contents are not good enough! Yes! ‘Good enough’ is one thing you have to trust in yourself first.
Someone said, ‘if you don’t take the chances, who will?’ Meaning that if you have a chance, make that move that can change everything around you, but first there is a choice that comes begging you to embrace— taking the chance. If fact, it acts as a foundation before making a final move to either success or failure. For sure, if you have a good base, even failure will not stand on your way.
Fear of change brings downfall,
Self confidence conquers fear of change,
But for one to expect success, take a chance when it comes your way and let it decide your destiny.