This young lady had been in a relationship with her lover for quite sometime and everything had been moving on smoothly.She is in a family of six brothers and she is the only girl and the last born.But then her brothers found out about this relationship and confronted her boyfriend and told him to keep off seeing their sister with threats that if he fails to stop he will be in for it.They even roughed him up almost beating him to pass their point home.
When she questioned the reason for their actions,they said that he was not good for her and so was out to exploit.They told her that they can still be friends but nothing about love between love is acceptable.They even went ahead to tell her that as her brothers,they have the mandate of protecting her and even approve who she should date.
Now this lady was in a dilemma since she thought it was her right to decide if a relationship is healthy or not.But the majority of ladies felt that her brothers did the right thing since if she would ever get into any trouble,it’s obvious that she would rush to her brothers.They felt that it was a good thing to have your big brothers who are out to protect you.They also pointed out that her brothers had more experience in relationships and that’s why they were justified to look out for their small sister.
I think that since a relationship is always between two people in love,a third-party will definitely interfere negatively with such a union.So however much her brothers felt that they had a right to protect her,I think that she needs space. Here is no one who is supposed to decide for another who is good or not good for you.One should be free to make a choice when it comes to relationship matters. A woman needs to understand her man as well. You can also read the book His Secret Obsession which has an amazing take on Male Psychology and how to make your man fall in love with you! As a straight single man who has been in the dating game and has had relationships, this book have some interesting insights .