The fact that you’re alive makes you independent and ready to make decisions on your own. You may have good people around you who would be willing to help you stand on your own. Now, who long should you stay leaning on that particular someone?
It happens that, when you’re being fed on someone’s sweat you may not realize how tough life is. This laziness can make you want to stay like that forever. You want freedom to do anything you want but you do not want to work for it.
I have known quite a number of people who are naturally lazy and would do anything possible to stay away from personal responsibilities. Amazing male species are the most affected.
In one family, I know a person who is like a house boy. He has a working brother who provides everything for him. This made the man to be so reluctant to go out there and do some job for pocket-money.
At one time, his brother secured a job for him, but he worked there only once and he quitted saying that it was a strenuous work.
According to him, sleeping is his favorite hobby and he is not willing to let go easily.
In another example, there is this woman— a mother of two– in my neighborhood who does everything for the family since her husband is a don’t care type of guy.
She has to pay rent, pay bills, cater for school fees for her two daughters and all household responsibilities.
Her husband is there, always present but he is kind of lost hope in life. At one time, he was a career person but whatever happened to make him quit his job remains only in rumors. But now it is almost three years as a house-husband… waiting for a miracle to that might turn him into a responsible person for his family.
Human mind is easily manipulated into contentment with little on the table. It takes an agile mind to forge forward for the sake of the future.