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Relationship – Page 15 – Waflay Post
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Marriage Institution, What Is Expected Of You after Love

Is it love that keeps marriage intact and peaceful?

At one point in marriage life, you might feel neglected, lonely and the link between the two of you cut short by unknown forces.

What would you do if you find yourself in that situation? First, you have to understand that nothing you are facing is new in this institution called marriage. In fact, other people have felt even worst experience than you have. Be yourself and act upon chances that might bring in good relationship. Some of them are;

  1. Avoiding anger when handling marital issues

-Anger solves nothing in this world and you should not expect it to work in your marriage either. Having short temper is not good… control how you feel and do not let your feelings ruin your chances of solving marital issues.

  1. Creating a channel of communication

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-There is no relationship that can survive if parties involved are not ready to face their marriage problems head-on. Remember, you are one -only that each brain is on a different soul. Therefore, it is up to you to create a link to connect the two, to have a uniform purpose and to level out small differences that might seem huge if not tackled in time.

  1. Playing your part so well to eliminate loopholes in your part

-Before you point out whatever that you dislike from him or her, are you clean that the other party has nothing to say about you? Think very well before you make a move… sometimes rushing for a negative point of view in your marriage partner can turn disastrous. Oops! No one likes the truth.

  1. Thinking positive that all will be well.

-All is well! A short sentence stolen from a Bollywood movie, 3 Idiots, can be helpful in your struggle to save your marriage. Dueling in negative thoughts will stress you up for nothing… Be positive in mind and work upon what you know about your partner.

Secondly, do you trust your marriage partner? It is up to you now to think of a better way to go after the loose ends. You know him or her better than anyone else does. You can exploit the weaknesses and seen how it goes. If you see changes in your partner that you do not like, point them out… ask questions and you should be ready answer some that your partner might be having for you. Remember, no one is perfect! Do not even pretend to be perfect in marriage.

Another thing that you have to consider is tolerance. It is only in marriage that people do stupid things and get away without being accountable for them. Yes! It might be annoying to keep correcting his or her mistakes, but learn to put up with it or talk about if you want the person to change.

In what I understand, Love is that thing that brings different people together, but what keeps the marriage going are simple things you do for each other.

Happy Love time!

 

Youth and Marriage

Marriage is the most fulfilling relationship and can at the same time be the most hurting relationship.

Choosing your partner well is the foundation for a good marriage.But to the youth,choosing is the most neglected part when one is settling down to marriage.

It’s better to fall in love to someone who is your friend.

Qualities to look for in your partner before settling down to marriage

1. Can you accept one another as partner?-You can’t change your partner and should be ready to accommodate the differences that you have.As a partner don’t promise to change if you know it’s hard for you to.

2. Do you like each other?-Liking is more basic than loving.If he /she is your ideal friend then you are able to share secrets.

3. Are your values comparable?-This is being open/honest with each other values that is there are no reservations in your relating together.That is there is mutual respect,responsibility,loving/caring.

4. Are you comfortable with the way you express your feelings to your partner?

5. Are you comparable in how you look at life?-That is whether your partner is an optimistic positive partner or a pessimistic negative person.

Factors that young people should consider before marriage

1. Marriage as a teen is a known risk factor for divorce.-Marriage is best for partners who are at an age that they can be responsible for themselves.

2.The more partners are similar in terms of principles,background and goals,there are high chances that the marriage can in the long run be fruitful.

3.Education background-Partners who are educated to maybe college level have high chances of successful marriage.this is due to their diverse exposure to different environment.

4. Marriage helps to generate wealth and income.-People who are in marriage may be economically better off.

5. It’s important to know how you got to know your partner.The most likely places is through introduction by a family member or a friend or through acquaintances.

6. Living together before marriage is not fruitful.

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What Is Love?

true love is...

true love is…

What is love?

I have never figured out what is the true meaning of this simple word. I said ‘simple’ because we always use it when we have someone we are interested in.

Can it be an automatic ‘pop up’ when feeling between two different parties meet and engulf each other, creating a bond that we mistake for love?

 

Lesson From Love Story

A long time ago, there was a small boy who loved his best friend, a girl from the neighboring homestead.

They were good friends and spent most of their time together…only evening hours separated the two young love birds.

They grew up into maturity, knowing nothing about reality of love because they were good friends and same goes to love. They ended up married.

One day an opportunity arose for the man, he got a job in a town… and this forced them to move in town, away from their rural home.

Later, the wife got a job in a certain firm and the two lived a happy but simple life.

Temptations and Love

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One day, the devil sent his angel of doom to deliver  the message to the wife…’You have no experience in real life.. you have been with one man all your life. Try something new

At first, she thought that the ‘other guy’ will give up the search for her heart. But as pressure intensified, she had no choice but to give in into his demands. She started cheating and ended up leaving her husband to the new man.

Her mother being a religious person tried to convince her to leave her ways of life but all attempts hit the dead end.

The sad reality was that her new found lover was HIV positive. The damage was done and there was no way into her marriage bed once again.

Even though her husband loved her…, he could do nothing about it because things were never the same again. He moved on with his life.

A sad love story, isn’t it? Better watch a movie, Confessions Of A Marriage counselor

Now, what is that one thing that constitutes True Love?

Is it wealth and riches?

Does it mean searching, experiencing and learning something new until the day you settle for that special someone with all love qualities you like?

Or it is all about accepting you fate and learning to live with it no matter what!

I do not know that you are thinking, but I guess you have already found your answer.

 

Happy time in Love..

 

Evaluating a Romantic Relationship on whether it’s Healthy or Not

Love toast

Love toast

So many factors can determine the future of a healthy romantic relationship. It is upon the lovebirds to weigh and see the future of their love without straining so hard to fit well with someone–

1. In school

-For those in school is whether your partner encourages in anything concerning studies For example giving past papers for revision?

-Have ones grades improved or fallen since the start of this relationship.

-Is there missing of school due to the relationship with this person.

2. Physical health

-Has one limited the extra-curriculum activities so that one can spend time with his/her partner?

-IS there any contraction of sexually transmitted infections from this person?

-For those in the university, has one had any injuries due to any fights involved with a partner?

-Is there a case of any unwanted pregnancy as a result of this relationship?

3. Emotional health

-For those in the university, does one feel better or worse since entering in this relationship?

-Is one more stressed or even having a low self-esteem since the beginning of the relationship?

-Is there trouble in sleeping?

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-Is there increased use of alcohol or smoking because of the relationship?

-Does one drinking or use drugs to be more comfortable in the relationship?

5. Family and friends

-Has the relationship affected how one relates with friends and family members?

-How do your families feel about the relationship?

-What comments from friends concerning the relationship?

-How do friends feel about the partner?

-How does the partner talk about one’s family?

-Has one grown apart from family due to the relationship?

Is there any element of jealousy to one’s family by the partner?

-Is there spending time separately or there is mingling even with family and friends?

The above factors help one to gauge if a relationship is moving towards the right direction, and that is if the answers are positive.

Be happy in love