Is it love that keeps marriage intact and peaceful?
At one point in marriage life, you might feel neglected, lonely and the link between the two of you cut short by unknown forces.
What would you do if you find yourself in that situation? First, you have to understand that nothing you are facing is new in this institution called marriage. In fact, other people have felt even worst experience than you have. Be yourself and act upon chances that might bring in good relationship. Some of them are;
- Avoiding anger when handling marital issues
-Anger solves nothing in this world and you should not expect it to work in your marriage either. Having short temper is not good… control how you feel and do not let your feelings ruin your chances of solving marital issues.
- Creating a channel of communication
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-There is no relationship that can survive if parties involved are not ready to face their marriage problems head-on. Remember, you are one -only that each brain is on a different soul. Therefore, it is up to you to create a link to connect the two, to have a uniform purpose and to level out small differences that might seem huge if not tackled in time.
- Playing your part so well to eliminate loopholes in your part
-Before you point out whatever that you dislike from him or her, are you clean that the other party has nothing to say about you? Think very well before you make a move… sometimes rushing for a negative point of view in your marriage partner can turn disastrous. Oops! No one likes the truth.
- Thinking positive that all will be well.
-All is well! A short sentence stolen from a Bollywood movie, 3 Idiots, can be helpful in your struggle to save your marriage. Dueling in negative thoughts will stress you up for nothing… Be positive in mind and work upon what you know about your partner.
Secondly, do you trust your marriage partner? It is up to you now to think of a better way to go after the loose ends. You know him or her better than anyone else does. You can exploit the weaknesses and seen how it goes. If you see changes in your partner that you do not like, point them out… ask questions and you should be ready answer some that your partner might be having for you. Remember, no one is perfect! Do not even pretend to be perfect in marriage.
Another thing that you have to consider is tolerance. It is only in marriage that people do stupid things and get away without being accountable for them. Yes! It might be annoying to keep correcting his or her mistakes, but learn to put up with it or talk about if you want the person to change.
In what I understand, Love is that thing that brings different people together, but what keeps the marriage going are simple things you do for each other.
Happy Love time!