When two lover birds join together in a marriage,their hope is to live happily ever after. But there has been an emerging trend whereby either a man or the woman will have another secret life which the partner is not aware of. Those in the habit will give some reasons which may seem viable to them and these may be the following just to mention a few:
-For financial reasons
-To enjoy life.
Such habits are meant to remain secret in order for the marriage to survive and so the players are extra careful to achieve their secrecy. I have some scenarios where the player was not lucky enough and the partner found out;
This lady was married to a man for about five years and they had two children. She didn’t know the husband’s job and each time she asked him,all he said was that is not important since he was able to cater for her upkeep and that of the children.
Everything about her husband was sinister since he would sometimes wake up very late in the night and disappear without even telling her anything. At times, she could go home from work only to find him at home sleeping.
So she decided to do her investigation to find out what her husband was hiding only to get a rude shock that he was a gangster. She was more scared than ever since he has always been very strict and won’t even allow a visit to her own parents. She does not feel secure anymore since his bad habit can expose her and the children to great danger.
It was so devastating to the man who found out that the wife was a sex commercial worker. They have been marriage for 15 years,with children and all he knew was that his wife was doing well business wise. He was a PSV driver and the wife had bought that matatu for her and were living in a residential plot that she had purchased.
One day, became curious to go through her belongings in the handbag. She had a journal where she had marked some meetings with men as having good results. He confronted her and she confessed that it has been her other side of life for those 15 years.
It comes as a surprise to unearth what your partner has been in secret life.. so, is it wise for one to know partner’s deep secrets?