As a man, I do understand man-ism so much that my whole life revolves around there. I have to admit that we were born with some flaws that are hard to deal with, but can be done to those who choose to make the right move. In most cases, men who are in stable marriages have mastered the art of acquired knowledge– not that they were born with it, but they adapted it just for the sake of success.
Easiness to accept fate successful,
While the male society has its own stand that they pride over. Those who go against the wishes of the majority will standout to be a lesser man. However, the same person is capable of swimming between the male world and the other society that we only learn about when ‘love thing’ pushes us to accept fate—female world. It is sad that not all men have all it takes to accept this fate and embrace it successfully.
Shaping that male personality,
Well, I guess not all men would understand me if I say that they have to listen to her— wife or girl friend before making the most important decision. According to us, we have to go by what our mind tells us. Listening to other people’s opinion is considered to be a sign of weakness and should not be entertained.
Nevertheless, love relationships and marriages go contrary to what many of us understand as the way of life. It is not easy to balance between personality and real life. And this is why some of us make a mistake by involving matters of the heart into matters of mind, leaving fate to decide what course to take.
We have to be strong, not only physically, but mentally and psychologically too to make right decisions for the sake of those we care about. We are weak, we are easily moved by ego and we do make mistake in the process. However, it only needs a simple understanding of life to push our love life into an ever-rolling wheel of peace and success.