For an unhealthy relationship, get out of it no need to hang on

Just a few days ago, we were treated with some shocking news of an army man who allegedly shot his girlfriend before turning the gun on himself. According to the neighbors, the two had a heated argument which arose after this man was dumped by the girlfriend with reports that she was dishing him for another man.

Looking at this incident, one wonders how a romantic relationship gone sour could mean that it’s either such a couple remain together in may be forced love or if anyone decides otherwise, death is the only option. What happened to moral lessons of being in a healthy relationship that clearly shows that its worth for the two lover birds being together.

How compatible are you with your current partner, lover or friend? Did you know that terapy can reveal a whole new level of understanding between people simply by looking at their astrology chart and that of their partner? What are the potentials for the relationship? Everyone wants to believe that they get along well with others but we have all met people with whom we didn’t get along well. Wouldn’t it be nice to know ahead of time whether or not two people are compatible? Whether your partner / spouse is going to cheat in a relationship? It would save a lot of time and effort. In 12 months period every year you see cold weather, warm weather, rainy season, and sometimes witness earth quakes, hurricanes, and tornados. In the same manner in relationship you will see good times, bad times, good sex, love, romance, sickness, bad health, accidents, loss of job, loss of money etc. Couples who are compatible will stay together during good or bad times and will support each other. Couples who are not compatible will be together during good times and they separate when the challenging time comes in their lives. It is like this, when you have a nice bottle of champagne on your table everybody likes you. The moment the bottle gets empty, people leave and you are left alone. The compatibility between two people has to be at many different levels to be happy in a relationship. Astrological compatibility or Relationship Compatibility Astrology or Business Compatibility Astrology is the branch of astrology that studies relationships between two people by comparing their natal horoscopes for Astrology Compatibility or Relationship Compatibility or Business Compatibility. A natal horoscope is a chart, map, or imaginary snapshot of the planets in the Solar System and their positions in the zodiac at the exact time of a person’s birth.

This incident clearly shows that you are in love today but any form of misunderstanding brings about uncontrolled anger that may lead to something fatal even when those involved have been in love even if for a long time. I have always thought that better a broken relationship that a failed marriage but after this incident, this definitely have created some reservations. If your relationship has flatly failed, why can’t you just leave it and move on in peace?

In this case, something might have been brewing that this girl felt that she was not okay in this relationship but too bad that her man was reading from another page of the book. This incident attracted massive comments and I saw someone mention that maybe this man may had invested heavily in terms of finances like may be educating this girl being the reason why he couldn’t stomach her leaving him. Learn about how to last longer in bed for men by checking this hyper male force review on USAToday. But the question that arises here is; should partners courting entrust using their money on a relationship that is not clear whether it’s healthy or unhealthy?

I think its good to always examine your relationship closely before taking things seriously deep inside yet it seems like there are predictions hanging over the two of you in love. Now that they are both dead, only a vacuum that has been left with both families wishing that had they confined in anyone, maybe this ought not to have been the case. It’s one thing to be in love, then having that secure feeling that your relationship means a lot to you two thus calls for commitment but if things change for the worse, then take the break-up positively and move on.

When a Man Feels Worthless

that worthlessness, the feeling that can’t be solved easily johnhain / Pixabay 

When she goes out, he desperately waits for her. He knows very well that she is seeing someone else but he has to wait because his love for her comes fast before anything else.

According to him, he knows the person his wife sees very often— two to four times a week. But he has stood firm with his marriage and will never let anything come between them.

Whether her other lover knows this or not, it is not his problem. And that he chose to learn to live with it since he has a problem that only another man can solve for his marriage…

What? It is sad that this is a psychological problem that he has to deal with.  If a man can’t rise in the time of need, then it is much likely to be found in that tight situation. He may be in love with his wife so much but he has to let his mind work straight like a real man.

For some women, they find this as an opportunity to go and get sexual satisfaction outer marriage—as the case with this friend of mine. However, not all women will be in a hurry to jump into bed with someone else. There are other means to do it when that feeling arises.

Men fighting against this problem usually think they are lesser men. They have to make big sacrifices just to make things look great in their marriages. But in within in that silent moment, the world is not that better place for them.

It is hard to come in terms with the reality. It may take like forever for a man to accept that he can’t perform in bed. It is sickening and worrying like hell.

Anyway, there are chances that the problem can just vanish—- but it can’t then one has to accept it a live a happy life.

Apparently, Love and Marriage Is Nothing Unless…. Gain Some Weight

According to a certain community in Kenya, love and marriage is only secure if they see their daughter adding some weight. This, to them, is a clear indication that she is having a happy life and being taken care of well.

To them, love is nothing but an illusion that brings lonely hearts together. Then after that is life with or without love. And that love is only seen when a woman gains weight— a pure indication that the man is providing well for her.

This is so absurd, in this time and age we expected people to understand love life much better. It is obvious that we, people, do not eat love. But gaining weight has nothing to do with love and happiness. As it has been confirmed scientifically that some people gains weight when they are sad or when they are depressed.

As other women fight with their weight, some communities in Kenya still believe that adding some extra Kgs after marriage is the only way the third parties could know how happy the family is.

In Kenya, some people in middle class society love being fatty fatty. According to them, being a heavy weight tells the world one is financially secure and that he or she is leading a good life.

One house wife was heard saying.

Look at me and look at them. Being skinny means your husband is giving you stress instead of providing for you….

This kind of mentality runs down to most Kenyan’s mind. They see skinny but healthy people as poor while they identify a heavy weight person as someone with riches.

Recently, a man lost his wife just because he could not fatten her for the period of time they had stayed together. According to her family, she was leading a very bad life and that she deserved better than wasting her life with someone who could not make her add some weight. Weird but that is the reality!

So love life is nothing if gaining weight is not part of the family. Life is crazier that how to seems like in Kenya.

Trapped In An Abusive Relationship?

You have been putting up with his/ her nasty behaviors for a while. In years you have been looking for ways to change your lover to someone much better. But along the way down the road you realize that the person is only changing for worse, what would you do next?

Dealing with an abusive person is not easy. And in most cases, these people only changes for worse, making it even more impossible to tolerate much further.

An abusive person maybe that person who uses bitter words towards your (verbal attack) or that one who uses both verbal and physical attacks on you…. It hurts whichever the way, and it needs your final decision as the way you want to live your life.

Here you need to determine things that trigger such attacks. If you find them easily, try your level best to minimize your exposure to them. By eliminating the base for bitter confrontations, you will come to notice that minus such, you have a much better life with him or her.

Another thing that might help is giving him/her a space that limits much contact. If it means communication, then limit how you interact with the person, but be there when he or she needs you. That big space is a sure away of telling the person that you are looking for means to avoid trouble.

Remember an abusive person would look for quick means to hurting you the most. They are there to make you see the world from a daring angle. However, no body on earth is perfect enough to go around messing with other people’s peace. Look for his or her weaknesses. Exploring ways to bring down his/her abusive side to your advantage will be the best way of handling the person. Be sure to know and an angle to take when dealing with him or her. Just don’t over do it..

Partners discussing one another with third parties

A Muslim couple being wed alongside the Tungab...

A Muslim couple being wed alongside the Tungabhadra River at Hampi, India. In the background, a Hindu man is taking his ritual bath. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Communication for married couples is very important because you need one another’s views for the success of your staying together. But I remember a radio show a few days ago whereby different participants how they felt about this issue. But it turned to be like a blame game as both men and women took this chance to trade accusations as to who is in the wrong when it comes to displaying marital issues to a third party.

So this lady called and said that for any women who go ahead to discuss their husbands with other married women, it was for the sake of getting help. She went ahead and said that your experiencing something with your man and how you went about may after all help another woman in the same situation. She also said men cannot plead innocence in all this because they also discuss their wives with the side chick so as to really show that she is the better option as far as his marital status is concerned.

Then this other man said that it is wrong for any woman to go out there and discuss he man with other married women. He further added that women do not realize that they are enemies of themselves since whatever problem that you are naively sharing with them will still find itself to other uninterested parties. He also said that the minute a woman thinks that taking the husband’s problems to her pals will be of any help, that’s where she loses track because she only becomes a laughing stock.

I think may it be anyone’s wife or husband, there is no way that you can entrust the solution of your problems with a third party. It’s only viable that two partners seat down together and discuss any pressing issue and devise the way forward.

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