For an unhealthy relationship, get out of it no need to hang on

Just a few days ago, we were treated with some shocking news of an army man who allegedly shot his girlfriend before turning the gun on himself. According to the neighbors, the two had a heated argument which arose after this man was dumped by the girlfriend with reports that she was dishing him for another man.

Looking at this incident, one wonders how a romantic relationship gone sour could mean that it’s either such a couple remain together in may be forced love or if anyone decides otherwise, death is the only option. What happened to moral lessons of being in a healthy relationship that clearly shows that its worth for the two lover birds being together.

How compatible are you with your current partner, lover or friend? Did you know that terapy can reveal a whole new level of understanding between people simply by looking at their astrology chart and that of their partner? What are the potentials for the relationship? Everyone wants to believe that they get along well with others but we have all met people with whom we didn’t get along well. Wouldn’t it be nice to know ahead of time whether or not two people are compatible? Whether your partner / spouse is going to cheat in a relationship? It would save a lot of time and effort. In 12 months period every year you see cold weather, warm weather, rainy season, and sometimes witness earth quakes, hurricanes, and tornados. In the same manner in relationship you will see good times, bad times, good sex, love, romance, sickness, bad health, accidents, loss of job, loss of money etc. Couples who are compatible will stay together during good or bad times and will support each other. Couples who are not compatible will be together during good times and they separate when the challenging time comes in their lives. It is like this, when you have a nice bottle of champagne on your table everybody likes you. The moment the bottle gets empty, people leave and you are left alone. The compatibility between two people has to be at many different levels to be happy in a relationship. Astrological compatibility or Relationship Compatibility Astrology or Business Compatibility Astrology is the branch of astrology that studies relationships between two people by comparing their natal horoscopes for Astrology Compatibility or Relationship Compatibility or Business Compatibility. A natal horoscope is a chart, map, or imaginary snapshot of the planets in the Solar System and their positions in the zodiac at the exact time of a person’s birth.

This incident clearly shows that you are in love today but any form of misunderstanding brings about uncontrolled anger that may lead to something fatal even when those involved have been in love even if for a long time. I have always thought that better a broken relationship that a failed marriage but after this incident, this definitely have created some reservations. If your relationship has flatly failed, why can’t you just leave it and move on in peace?

In this case, something might have been brewing that this girl felt that she was not okay in this relationship but too bad that her man was reading from another page of the book. This incident attracted massive comments and I saw someone mention that maybe this man may had invested heavily in terms of finances like may be educating this girl being the reason why he couldn’t stomach her leaving him. Learn about how to last longer in bed for men by checking this hyper male force review on USAToday. But the question that arises here is; should partners courting entrust using their money on a relationship that is not clear whether it’s healthy or unhealthy?

I think its good to always examine your relationship closely before taking things seriously deep inside yet it seems like there are predictions hanging over the two of you in love. Now that they are both dead, only a vacuum that has been left with both families wishing that had they confined in anyone, maybe this ought not to have been the case. It’s one thing to be in love, then having that secure feeling that your relationship means a lot to you two thus calls for commitment but if things change for the worse, then take the break-up positively and move on.

Why She Decided To Marry Her Pet Dog

jools_sh / Pixabay girl and her pet dog

The recent wedding in a certain village, somewhere in Southern part of Africa, hit airwaves in a negative tone.

Apparently, this woman—a thirty something year old— walked down the isle in a church wedding but her husband to be was not a two legged being, but a four legged animal— the dog.

The shocking wedding was officiated by the controversial Man of God who in the past shocked many by doing something silly that left the whole country talking in hush hush tones. The recent wedding will only add a further doubt in his claims to be the chosen one in the village.

Going back to the lady in question, according to her… she has never known the meaning of a family and her dog has always been there for her, she has always made sure to take care of him just the way he deserves

And a man in is nothing but a noun in the English language. She said,

I grew up with a single mother because my biological father was an irresponsible parent. He could not take his responsibilities, forcing my mum to do her duty and his duties too. This is to say, my mum did everything she could to make sure the family was whole… I’m not ready to take the same route in life. That is why I chose my pet over men out there.”  

Well, the reason for going to her dog as her companion is the fact that,

  • The Dog understands her emotional feelings much better.
  • The dog will not pester her with questions about her privacy.
  • She is gonna be more independent on her own.
  • The dog  is the man’s best friend hence it won’t hurt her in anyway…
In her parting shot, she told the nosy lot that,

”You say , all men are dogs, then why bother if I find myself a real dog for a husband…?

Oops! That was so rude…. But we wish her all the best in life.

What to Avoid In a New Love Relationship

It is very easy to fall in love with someone, but hard to live with it. Love itself is as free as gases we breathe in, but maintaining love lifestyle needs more than what you may have thought of in the first place.

Now before you feel it is time to express your feelings to that one special person that your heart id dying for, there are a few things that you need to free from your mind first.

Your ex,

Most of us have been in a relationship that did not work. We may be influenced to carry the same mistake we made into the new love relationship. This is a big ‘NO’! Everyone on earth is unique and should be addressed as such. People often make a mistake by comparing the ex to the new catch, and even going ahead saying negative things about the ex. For your information, no one wants to hear something about your past love life.

Too busy,

There are habits that do not any value in your love life. Most relationships survive for a long time because the parties involved give it much of their time and resources than anything else. People who do not have time for each other have no reason to whine about bad relationship because they are usually he cause of all that might happen afterwards.

Talk about it, include all that might affect the future of your relationship and know how to deal with them. Let that person understand everything about you and make a decision based on the views about it. If the person accepts all then it is good to go.

Unrealistic Approaches,

Well, it is easy to say a lie than how it is to tell the truth. Trust me! Everything you say about yourself will be verified later as time goes on. This is why you need to say all about you, negative your thick bitter past…

Being unrealistic makes a relationship to hang on balance. You only need to be yourself and let the person take it from there. In other words, a relationship based on lies only leads into problems in future. You do not want that to happen.

These three are just among major vices that makes love life very difficult and might lead to break up. Avoiding them is very easy. Just be yourself, have time for him or her and forget about anything else that does not matter to you.

Look on the positive side of your life

I sometimes look at most of the aspiring leaders when they are delivering their speeches; they do it like they are sure that us the voters are gonna vote them in. They have clear and well-defined agenda that show what they are ready to do once in office such that one can mistake them to being the present leaders.

For example listening to the opposition leader, his speech alone shows he has what it takes to take the job of governing the country if we would give him our votes. So the same case applies to us that whatever we would like to be in the future should make us shine now because we know that we have the capability.

Then it’s good to look at your life like a cup half full rather than looking at it like if it’s half empty. A cup half full means there is something in it and so if you think of your life this way; then it means you are already viewing on the bright side of things and so you gonna make maximum use of what you have. On the other hand, a cup half empty means nothing inside and so a life considered to be in this manner means that you are looking on the dark side of things and at the same time thinking of what you have lost or missed.

Your success largely depends on how fast you are able to grasp opportunities as they come in every second in your life. The chance for you to make it starts at how you see yourself today, tomorrow, and in the near future. Life dictates for people to make sound judgment about themselves first before making an initiative that will definitely be the life changer. Just never underestimate simple things that come and go… they might turn out to be opportunities that will determine your future.

Lastly, you don’t have to depend on what people say about you— no matter positively of negatively. People would always see an opportunity in you first before you even know it. But if you are not careful, lots of them would want to use you to achieve their own goals. This is not good for your first step into prosperity.

Girl FACE-Off Her Ex-boyfriend In Church

Counselling / Pixabay (mending the broken heart) 

This is why she never stepped in that church again, how did it happen?

A month and two weeks earlier, she found her boyfriend in bed with someone else. Things did not end well that she cried for days until someone suggested to her that she needed a relationship counselor.

Having nothing else she could do to end her darkest moment in her love life, she accepted the offer to join counselling classes.

Things were turning great. Every moment meant something in her life. She learned to accept herself and to move on with life as is. She even started attending church services, draw herself close to God and to experience first hand life in Christ.

Well, with lots of activities in her life she almost forgot her heartbreak and this was good for her healing process.

But one day, a Sunday, the pastor was preaching about perseverance and why the people — Christians— should not be ready to give up easily.

In the middle of the sermon, the pastor’s message was sinking in so well in the minds of the people that the whole congregation found itself so enthusiastic with the word of God. Then the pastor, said

Tell your neighbor, “Neighbor! It is not yet over…”’

As she turned to her neighbor, she found out that he was the same person who broke her heart. An ex-boyfriend whom she ad decided to avoid for the rest of her life.

Why could she you have done?

She looked at him and said,

Satan, it is so over with you…”

Unfortunately, she said this while in that awkward moment state. Damn! When everyone in the church was seated and the whole congregation was so quiet.

Obviously, everyone heard about it. All eyes were on two people, her and her ex-boyfriend, who were still standing staring at each other.

Yep! It was time to walk away. Fly away and never to be seen again.

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