When two lover birds are in a union in marriage,it’s hard to evade mistakes done by one partner to the other.
Depending on the individual some will opt to forgive the ‘wrong’ done ,forget and move on. But there are others who will not forgive,get off that marriage and at the same time swear to make the partner pay one day.
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But those who forgive their partners, say that they do it for the love that they have for their partners and also due to the fact of how they cherish their marriage.
I have some scenarios where marriage mistakes have been forgiven;
For this man,he had been married to his wife for six years and the wife conceived with another man.The fact that she confessed was enough to make him take her back and since they were legally married in church wedding and they still loved each other very much.
Another man also confessed that he forgave his fiancee while they were still in college after she conceived with another man.He felt that with a child involved,it would not be good to abandon her. Then after 11 years in marriage ,her infidelity made her test HIV positive while for him he tested negative. He finally decide to marry her legally in church hoping that she would eventually change.
But for those who could not forgive based their argument on how responsible the person will be, not to repeat the same mistake again.
In fact one had to support this; his wife cheated on him with his best friend and he forgave her. However, she did it again with his work mate and so he broke up with her since he could no longer trust her whatsoever.
It’s good to forgive in marriage but what matters more is if it’s worth to continue living as a couple.
As we have read in the above examples of forgiveness, we find that some people are forgiven and later lead a straight life, however we have other who go on repeating the same mistake. My question is, how many times are you willing to forgive your unfaithful lover?