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Lying, Love And The Reality In Relationships

In a man’s world, love and lies go hand in hand and rarely do they walk apart. In many relationships, lies play a bigger role in bringing people together and making them stay together for a while— never do lies build a lasting relationship— before someone making a choice to walk away.

Most men believe that women believe in lies more than what they would do to the reality. In this case, men say that if you want to win a girl’s heart then do not tell her more than what she should know about you. Tell her all lies you can get and you will be a happy man.

Why do bad boys win over good girls’ hearts?

Many of us have no idea how this happens. We only assume that maybe bad boys win because she wants to have sense of security or maybe because her needs an adventure in real life, rough people, hooligans that would do terrible things just to have fun.

However, such relationships never go for long because once a good, deserving person pops up, the girl leaves the bad boy to the new person.

While we still seek for answers, a question arises, why would a girl withstand a terrible relationship—full of lies and abuse, and later decide to quit for another relationship?

From the beginning, a girl would tell if her relationship with some guy will be long-lasting. She can read the signs to know if her boyfriend is the right person for her, but in most cases , she chooses to ignore anything that might hint that he is not the right person.

By staying with a liar, she only hopes for a day when such dreams will be answered. To her, she keeps her mind alive, turning lies into dreams and hoping for the better.

As for the bad boy, she stays with him waiting for the miracle to happen. She thinks she can make him change. Upon realizing that there is nothing she can do, either she find someone more uncomplicated or hangs on for life.

Why Do People Hate Truth?

There is a saying that goes ‘Speak the truth and the truth will set you free’ but to most people doing it in action is a no go zone.

You will hear feuds between family members and if you follow what is causing so much drama, you will find that lies are carrying the day. I remember an incident of a married woman who had gone to the extent of creating lies of how her husband was the most wanted criminal yet it was her who had pinned him to the police of how he had questionable deals.

It was to later emerge that her husband was against her infidelity and so she had look for ways to curb situations that would make him unearth what she was doing behind his back.

Also I have a number of people saying that during courting, a healthy relationship comes from a bunch of lies on the side of a man.

Like this man who once said that if you tell your woman anything, her first reaction would be that you are definitely lying and so he went on and said, then lie to justify the obvious because it seems that lies are sweet. But anyway how true this is I cannot tell but maybe it’s out of critical thinking.

But then there are others who are faced with situations which they think telling the truth may mean suffering all the shame.

For example I have heard in the news of a grown up married man yet uncircumcised only for his secret to be revealed by his wife after an argument.

Circumcision is the rite of passage from childhood to adulthood and so anyone who has not undergone through it would rather hide the truth than suffer the shame being left out by his peers.

Living a Lie on Social Media

In the advancement of technology, we are now in a digital world whereby people of all lifestyles especially the youth have embraced being in the social media mostly face book.

As it is the norm, you are required to give a brief introduction about yourself like where you went to school, your employment status and many more.

But since there is no machine to establish the viability of the personal information given, many people tend to lie. It’s obvious to find someone posing before a vehicle and at the same time claiming to own it but this may still be lies.

Like for this scenario, this young man had a photo that was taken when holding the wheel of a Toyota car claiming to be his first car to own. He said that even if this was not true, it was his source of encouragement for him to work hard into owning a car.

And true to his words, he is now the proud owner of his current car and so he felt that his lies helped him to achieve his dream of driving. So in this case, he knew that his hiding into a lie was not in vain.

In this case, this guy used to be this lady’s classmate in high school and were friends in Facebook where he had stated that he was staying in a certain posh neighborhood only to learn later that he lived in middle-class residential place.

But then some other people think that it’s good to accept and be contented with who you are. I think you are not set to gain anything by lying and even pretending that you own this or that will not change your present self.

You want your friends to see you differently far away from reality then why not work hard to get there that you feel is good for them to see.

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