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Infidelity – Waflay Post
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Facebook for our social life but not a solution.

Face book is a social media platform that has really helped us to connect with people of all walks of life. But I think at times there are some people who post impulse updates concerning their real life. I came across a young man who broke up with his wife and posted an update for all his friends to see stating that her infidelity was the reason that he was getting out of their marriage.

So it came to happen that, the lady being targeted in that post came to lay everything in the light. She said that, the man has been so irresponsible the whole time they had been together. She even told the world that her ex is someone who just can’t keep off from chasing skirts. And that she was sorry for what she did but the blame should fall on her man—whose infidelity is beyond control.

Things can turn that ugly if one is not careful about social media updates about real life. You may hurt someone, but in most cases the game changes and the hunter becomes the hunted or worse, haunted!

The truth is such an action would not solve anything and going by the comments, the spectators will always yearn for more info. He is not the first one or the last one to share marital problems in Face book since many others will follow suit and in the end no solution will be forthcoming.

Face book is a media to share and connect but surely let us not make it a shoulder to lean on in case we experience problems even if it is with our spouses. Remember anybody is entitled to his/her privacy and everyone should respect that.

If we live our life gossiping about our close friends and loved ones, we would end up creating so many enemies than how we intent for the world to hear about our relationships and solve some. Love is all about sitting down with that someone and talking sense into each other.

Women’s Intuition, Something That Worries Men

There is something about women having the ability to unearth dark secrets about their men especially when it comes to infidelity. And true to this a man believes that its true that women can really see what one is about to do behind their backs. According to him, each time he tries to spend his time with another woman it is the same time when his wife calls and asks him of his whereabouts.

Then this other lady gave a version of her story about her experience when she was admitted in the hospital. Her husband was good to her and brought her breakfast and lunch but she couldn’t eat anything since she felt nausea. After sharing her feelings with other women patients in the ward, it was obvious that her husband was cheating on her with the house help.

When she left the hospital, she kept her suspicions to herself but decided to do her own investigations but she first made sure that both her husband and the house help became enemies. It is at this point that the house help told her the truth about the affair.

Other women just get kind of premonitions as they take a nap and true to such things if they follow their conscious and do some investigations, it turns out that something was really amiss. But then it may seem funny how most women believe in their inner instincts ,something that may make one wonder how all this works.

At the end of this forum, it was clear that a woman’s intuitions do exist and so many men would not wish to be on the wrong lest they are found. On the other hand, most women revealed that they have always confirmed any suspicions that they might have had about their men only that at times they let go everything as nothing has happened.

Not Too Late To Quit

We have freedom to live a happy life, right? And we choose what to do with this thing called life the way we pleases, a good reason why we have those who work very hard and those who use the shortcut method in order to reach there– self-actualization.

Life is simple, but somethings things just don’t go the way we expect and this results into making stringent decisions that might haunt us forever.  Yep! One may feel that such changes are necessary but as time goes, regrets comes in and booms, the world becomes so small for further life decisions.

This brings us to today’s story,

In her late teenage life, she hooked up with a married man and they have been together for ten years. According to her, she only needed easy life and that because someone was there to take care of her, she forgot all about other needs, like furthering her education and  a stable income, now she regrets because it seems the man will never leave his wife for her.

“Being a mistress is fun because you don’t have to hustle too much to reach there, but one day you will realize that life is not that great as it seems to be,” she warns, “the sad part of this lifestyle is, as age comes calling the more the man will become distant and eventually he will dump you for a younger girl out there. Remember, his wife comes first even when he pretends to love you more than her.” She concluded.

Anyway, this story is only fit for those women who wishes to have a happy marriage life someday. In this case those who find themselves in a relationship that has no future, wishing to change destiny but they are stuck with responsibilities to someone waiting for the miracle to happen.

Have your say!

 

 

 

Women who Share Their Husbands For The Sake of Getting Money

I was listening to an early morning radio show when a question was posed on women asking whether they would advocate their husband having affair with other women so long as they get cash. The first caller was a woman who said that if her husband would get a fair deal from a lady, then she would encourage her husband to grasp this opportunity. To her a fair deal meant lots of cash saying she would be okay with it since this will bring money to the family. She said nowadays men were sleeping around with other women but not getting anything so getting one who is offering to give cash is a positive thing.

The next lady caller said that in the economy of today, there is a lot of financial stress, getting someone offering cash is an opportunity that should not be left to slip away. She said  that her husband would still remain with her and not go anywhere and so money is the most important outcome. But I think it’s crazy how some people view issues relating to infidelity.

People ought to know that money is not everything to make you live happily but the problem is that most people tend to think that money buys happiness. I think those who condone this vice are prostitution partners and are only together for convenience and such couples should not in anyway view themselves as husband and wife .

It’s absurd how people forget we are in the era of HIV/AIDS and follow their greed for money. If anyone’s marriage partner would encourage the other to sleep around with another only for getting money, then there is no respect in this marriage. I think money earned through genuine ways however small it is makes one proud as its one’s sweat.