This lady has been dating her lover for the last one year but is not really sure whether she can truly trust him as her partner. This has seen her keeping it a secret on where she resides even if the guy has been insisting that he would like to visit her at home. According to her, she feels insecure to completely trust he is the man for her. She thinks that she may take the relationship to a higher step only for her to be disappointed when things don’t work out well as planned.
I don’t think her fears will take her anywhere since one year may be enough for one to fully be able to scrutinize what kind of man he is. Then she is not taking time to think what the man may think of her when he gets to know that she does not fully trust him. She never know since he may even call it quits when he sees all the reservation that she has for him when he tries to be more closer in her life.
What matters in a relationship is a determination if it’s worth making a commitment and your time as two lover birds. When two people are dating, it is their hope to establish a well cemented relationship that will eventually lead to a marriage. A healthy relationship is the most crucial factor that offers a guide whether you are in the right love commitment.
The best that she can do that will help the relationship is to review some few question when it comes to her relationship with this man. Like this one: does this man have any plans for the two of them in the future? If the answers are positive, then there is nothing to fear but just to work towards making the relationship even more rigid.
Fear is just an emotional expression that is in one’s mind that brings about nothing good but just takes one backwards.