This man shared with his peers how he ended up getting into marriage with his wife of about 8 years now. He said that he was sort of dating but was somehow involved with three different women and he had told each of them that he was gonna marry them. He was oblivious that he had to make a choice because there was no way that he was going to commit to the three women.
Then one day he was travelling to his parents’ home and somewhere along the way, one passenger sitting close to him reached his destination and so he was left seated next to a lady. He then started a conversation with her where they discussed lots of things but deep down in his heart, he felt she was the woman for him. So she became his latest woman to be promised of marriage.
It happened that he never even asked her even the name. But because of feelings, he gave her his contact information which she accepted by giving him the direction to her home. Oops! No mobile phones by then and the only way of communication were to go see someone face to face.
A week later he paid her a visit. However, his main motive was to talk to her parents. This went on fine and later that evening he went home with a woman who became his wife.
Another man said that, once he was out to buy some food stuffs when he saw this lady watching him from a far. So he went over to her and asked if she was willing to be his wife. She accepted and together they are now 12 years in marriage and counting.
Well, in these two experiences about love and marriage, we find that somehow some people were just meant to be together and if circumstances allow them to meet, then they fall in love there are then and life goes on just like fate planned of them.
Now, what about those who court each other for years before making life commitments? Okay, it is up to them but it is not really necessary.
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