Better to have an enemy who respect you than having a friend who despise you in public! The recent incident that happened between close friends made me wonder why some people choose a violent approach if they are not in a position to pay back what they owe their friends.
You can be a good friend to someone but this other person sees you as a source of riches. This person would do anything to be a close friend but when he gains more that expected; he creates enmity to make you stand alone when in need of help.
To such like people, there is nothing like true friendship. They only think about themselves and how they would be the beneficiary in that closeness.
Like ticks, they take but they never give back. They behave like parasites in animal kingdom— feeding on the host as it suffers a loss and sometimes weakened to death.
The reality happens here on earth. Like on this friend of mine, she had a person who seemed to be her close friend for many years. According to her story, she trusted the girlfriend so much that she invested a lot time and resources in her. But one day, the friend refused to help her out and that from then she terminated that friendship and went about spreading lies about this friend of mine.
For those who knew the reality, they refused to believe in those lies but it was obvious that she wanted to destroy my friend’s happiness just to stay away from pay back time.
Such evil minds thrive in people who do not feel anything good from anyone. By such actions they show the world what they are really made of. Sad news is that, if you owe them something, they would rather kill you than see you around in happiness. They just don’t forgive their debtors.
Ever had such a friend? Have your say!