When she goes out, he desperately waits for her. He knows very well that she is seeing someone else but he has to wait because his love for her comes fast before anything else.
According to him, he knows the person his wife sees very often— two to four times a week. But he has stood firm with his marriage and will never let anything come between them.
Whether her other lover knows this or not, it is not his problem. And that he chose to learn to live with it since he has a problem that only another man can solve for his marriage…
What? It is sad that this is a psychological problem that he has to deal with. If a man can’t rise in the time of need, then it is much likely to be found in that tight situation. He may be in love with his wife so much but he has to let his mind work straight like a real man.
For some women, they find this as an opportunity to go and get sexual satisfaction outer marriage—as the case with this friend of mine. However, not all women will be in a hurry to jump into bed with someone else. There are other means to do it when that feeling arises.
Men fighting against this problem usually think they are lesser men. They have to make big sacrifices just to make things look great in their marriages. But in within in that silent moment, the world is not that better place for them.
It is hard to come in terms with the reality. It may take like forever for a man to accept that he can’t perform in bed. It is sickening and worrying like hell.
Anyway, there are chances that the problem can just vanish—- but it can’t then one has to accept it a live a happy life.