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She is a wife material or she is not a wife material

English: Ugali with beef and sauce, This photo...

English: Ugali with beef and sauce, This photo has been taken by Mr.Chen Hualin in a bar inside the University of Dar es Salaam. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Even as we give it a go ahead into the institution of marriage on grounds of the healthy relationship, it’s obvious to hear a man talk of a lady being a wife material. This brings about the seriousness of it all when a man breaks up with his girlfriend on grounds that she is not a wife material. It’s hard to just assume everything but it really shows that there are men out there who are very cautious of this wife material thing.

By the look at what men are really after, I think there are some things that I guess I know of who is a wife material or not. First, a drunkard is not a wife material. By this I mean that a lady who has had the habit of drinking alcohol may not be a good choice for a wife. This is because possibilities of such a woman not taking up the role of wife are very high because this is a habit that she cannot overcome.

Then most men look for their mothers in this woman. This means having spent the better part of their lives with their mothers, they know what to expect because they have seen the roles of their mothers in the family and in particular their roles to the father.

The something else, a woman who cannot cook is definitely not a wife material. I have heard of situations where a newlywed wife cannot even cook a simple meal of ugali and is first sent back to her parents to learn how to cook. It may be that we may boast of belonging to a generation that has money to get things done but learning the basics is a good thing.

I have just listed a few things that relate to this wife material is but the truth is we cannot ignore this term. This is because quite a number of men fall back into using it thus showing it after all means a lot as far as marriage is concerned.

Domestic violence to blame for rising cases of violence against children

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child abuse (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Domestic violence is a situation that arises due to constant fighting between a man and his wife. So in most cases a mother in such a situation may opt to leave their children under the care of their father. So incase this man marries again, possibilities of the stepmother mistreating the children are very high.

Alternatively, the same mother can decide to leave the marriage but this time taking the children with her and maybe getting married again and so the step father of the children may in this case mistreat the children or maybe even defiling them.

But even as the cases of violence have been reported to be on the increase, one thing is for sure not all incidents that find their way into the newsroom. This is according to an officer working in a Non-government organization that deals with cases involving violence against children.

She went further to say that so far they have handled more cases as compared to the same time last year So if the boy/girl child if not in a healthy family setting, you will find them very vulnerable to such risky situations.

But then a society as a whole has a role to play in order to ensure that children are safe and let us be more enlightened on what to do when we experience such situations. This means that we should all have our eyes and ears open to ensure that the children within us are safe.

People should thus act responsibly and report any incidents where children’s rights are being violated. I remember an incident of a girl who was living at their home’s doorstep for being considered as a bad luck to the family. Such a girl was saved from the wrath of her father and the grandmother after her plight was highlighted in the media.