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Anger

There is swahili saying that goes ‘Hasira hasara’ and interpreting it further meaning anger accompanies itself with destruction or a loss. We all get angry but what matters is to what extent or whether you have allowed it to consume the better part of us. Anger is an emotion that requires anyone to control himself or herself before it can lead to something undesirable. Anger makes people to end up fighting and especially if those involved feel they are meant to really carry the day.

I remember a time when I was very angry that I was putting sugar in my food instead of some salt only to realizing after cooling down a bit .I think anger just makes one forget what sanity is and just makes one to react in a reckless manner.

We have heard incidents where some parents have gone ahead to severely beat up their children of seriously injuring them yet in the name of just punishing them for the wrong done. But what happens is a parent will absent mindedly beat up a child only to realize when it’s too late that they have caused them physical harm. So such a parent will end up incurring other unplanned expenses to take the child to the hospital for medical check-up all because of allowing inner saturation in anger.

As human beings it can be a lie to say that we can live without getting angry because as long as we are mingling with one another then getting angry at times is definitely possible. So we ought to be cautious not to allow anger to define our course of actions. Let’s be critical thinkers even when angry because if you stop even for a second, you surely get a sane way forward. Let’s not make rush decisions in anger because whatever follows is not something that we would have desired to get or have.

Youths On Making Healthy Sexual Decisions

Making the right decision

Making the right decision

When making such decisions the young people especially women should be aware of the consequences that may arise.Thinking of having sex involves both your body and emotions and so one should make sure that it’s the right decision that you are making.It’s good to have a trusted adult to talk to as this will make one to know more.

The decision to have sex is personal and is influenced by many social factors such as:

-Your values are different from those of your partner.

-Cultural beliefs-This includes how you were brought up and your self esteem.

-Peer pressure-Your friends or partner can be the influencing factor.

What should one think about before having sex?

-Is this what you want or is it pressure from your partner or friends.It should be a decision made without pressure and that is you don’t have to if you don’t want. If someone asks you to try out a position that you do not want,  then do not concede. There are many ways to express oneself sexually, and that includes using sex toys and sexual performance supplements like blue chew.

-How will you feel after sex?

-The decision to have sex for the first time and every time after is yours, you are also the ones that decided to use masturbators or not.

-Remember it’s completely okay to abstain.

Young men/women choose not to have sex due to:

-Waiting to get older or till after marriage.

-Religious beliefs.

-Fear of having to deal with unwanted pregnancy/Sexually Transmitted Infections(STIs). Its important to know about genitals warts, follow https://warts.org.

What do one need to know if sexually active or if one is thinking of becoming sexually active?

-One can make the decision to abstain or young adults nowadays use sex dolls to avoid getting girls pregnant.

-Know the gender of your partner-Is it a boy/girl relationship or same sex relationship?

-Know the kind of relationship that you have with your partner.

-If you are already sexually active then know the type of contraception to use.

Then it’s good to talk to your partner about the following:

-Ask his/her sexual history.

-Talk about the contraception method that you will use.

-If you are in heterosexual,talk about pregnancy-Are you both ready to be parents?

-Be open concerning past sexual relationships with other people.

People that one can talk to about sex:

-Parents/guardians if one is comfortable talking to them.

-Those older people in your youth group.

-Health care providers.

Have your say!