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Trapped In An Abusive Relationship?

You have been putting up with his/ her nasty behaviors for a while. In years you have been looking for ways to change your lover to someone much better. But along the way down the road you realize that the person is only changing for worse, what would you do next?

Dealing with an abusive person is not easy. And in most cases, these people only changes for worse, making it even more impossible to tolerate much further.

An abusive person maybe that person who uses bitter words towards your (verbal attack) or that one who uses both verbal and physical attacks on you…. It hurts whichever the way, and it needs your final decision as the way you want to live your life.

Here you need to determine things that trigger such attacks. If you find them easily, try your level best to minimize your exposure to them. By eliminating the base for bitter confrontations, you will come to notice that minus such, you have a much better life with him or her.

Another thing that might help is giving him/her a space that limits much contact. If it means communication, then limit how you interact with the person, but be there when he or she needs you. That big space is a sure away of telling the person that you are looking for means to avoid trouble.

Remember an abusive person would look for quick means to hurting you the most. They are there to make you see the world from a daring angle. However, no body on earth is perfect enough to go around messing with other people’s peace. Look for his or her weaknesses. Exploring ways to bring down his/her abusive side to your advantage will be the best way of handling the person. Be sure to know and an angle to take when dealing with him or her. Just don’t over do it..

Do they even care?

Drunk Father

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE  (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Just last week we were treated to the most inhuman acts as far as domestic violence is concerned. According to this couples neighbors, they were always arguing most of the times but nobody thought that anyone of them could choose death as a solution to their marital problems. So on this day, this woman pored paraffin on her sleeping husband, set him ablaze and then left after locking the bedroom door. Neighbors who heard children screaming for help that their father was burning managed to gain entry into the house. The couple’s two children were in the sitting room unharmed but their father was already dead. This woman died two days in hospital with reports that she had taken a lethal poison. Nobody wants to be trapped in jail. But when you don’t have a reliable and affordable solution for bail for domestic violence in CT, it may feel like you have no other choice. That’s why Connecticut Bail Bonds Group believes in fast service with a range of payment options that make it easier to cover costly bail expenses.

It is such an emotional torture to these kids who watched their father die and even more that they no longer have parents. Looking at this incident, one wonders what this woman thought to achieve by killing her husband and then taking her own life. I looked at the girl who is nine years of age with all the innocence may be even too young to comprehend anything.

Even if the woman is dead, I know most people who heard of this incident really branded her as the most evil woman with a very stony heart. May be her relationship with her husband was headed for the worst and she felt that saving the situation was impossible and she could not stomach failure was written all over for the two of them as a couple. Her actions are summarized of not even being a caring mother to her two children because did she even stop to think of them.

But then how many families does this sort of incident represent? There are others out there who do crazy things that make one wonder whether they really care about the welfare of the families. Let couples sort their differences in a sane manner

Why Men Suffer Silently In Domestic Violence

Is it true that men are the most affected people as far as domestic violence is concerned? The fact that most men do not speak out easily about there predicament, makes this cases go silent as the victims suffer the consequences.

In one video, I happened to see public reaction when a man is seen abusing his lover in the public and  vice versa. In the first video, people reacted quickly when a man was a victim but in the second part of it people just kept watching as the man was being rundown by the female lover. In conclusion, it was confirmed that men have nowhere to run when experiencing domestic violence. This makes them more vulnerable because no one believes that it— even in real life.

Watch the video here….. Would you stop domestic violence? 

In Kenya, abused men have there own organization but still many cases go unreported unless they are highlighted in national media.

Why men do no speak out,

The main reason why men do not have a say about domestic violence is the fact that this action could make them lesser men.

The society requires men to be strong and be the protectors of the family, but if a woman assaults a man, it becomes obvious that he is not a man enough. The sad part is that he might lose a face in the community.

For example, in Western Kenya, a man who undergoes domestic violence is not allowed to speak on behalf of a group of people or to engage in community discussion. This shame can follow him in his entire life unless he finds a way to deal with it.

In other communities in Kenya, bartered men are banished from the society, others called demeaning names whenever they go… this has made it so difficult for men to face the reality and speak out about it.

We live in a society that makes inferior men look unfit to live a happy life. If we advocate for change, then we should base our minds on this reality—Men suffer from domestic violence but we should be ready to accept them, as they are part of the society.

Why Eurobond Saga Is Far From Over…

Sometime back, pressure was mounting on the government as allegations were raised by the leader of the opposition that a lump sum amounting to billions had been swindled in Eurobond. Efforts to get info from him proved futile since he claimed that it was evident that the government was not committed to fighting corruption.

So the EACC, the body entitled to be a corruption watchdog had no option but to close the case of any money having been lost in Eurobond citing lack of credible evidence showing that there was any misappropriation of money. But the opposition leader and his team trashed this action claiming that there was evidence that the Eurobond money deposited in an individual’s account.

He went ahead and said that he is ready to give names because the truth is that the money was not used for any development projects as the government has always claimed. So he gave the DPP a number of days to look into the matters or else he will spill out the beans and name the corrupt individuals who are being protected for whatever reasons nobody knows.

Then another politician allied to the opposition tasked the government to come out clean and tell Kenyans what the money was used to do and he particularly said that if it was used in building roads, then let the government show the fully completed roads.

The opposition leader also said that the government is taking Kenyans for a ride and he remembered the NYS saga and even as the Devolution Cabinet Secretary resigned, no investigations have been conducted to establish the truth.

So its pressure and more pressure until the government gives Kenyans a reason to trust it really means good as far as the taxpayers are concerned but then lets wait and see the unfolding events in this Eurobond saga.

Never Entertain a Body Bully…

Sometimes it is better to lose a good friend if the person you consider o be a friend always finds something to say about you that really heart….

Anyways, as long as you’re alive you are out to face all criticism on earth. There are those people who consider themselves as perfect beings created when God had free time to waste. Such people believe that speaking out there mind is the perfect way demean someone or because they do not want people whom they consider as ‘defective’ to be in their midst.

The word ‘fat’ means a lot in female gender than how it seems to be in male human species. However, we have characters that are out to harass someone because of their weight, acne, hair style, physical appearance and whatever. These people are also known as body bullies.

A body bully will look at you and give a negative comment on something just to make you feel demoralized or lose confidence in yourself. Such people only seem to like hurting other people because they know that is the only way to beat them.

In most cases, body bullies have nothing to show other than a cute face and a mouth to speak all trash on earth. In fact big failures are always recorded in such like people’s lifestyle.

If you believe in yourself, you will have high chances of beating body bullies in their own game. Each and everyone on us has that little weak point that when touched will leave much in one’s heart and mind.

By an unfortunate circumstance when you come face to face with someone with such a bad mouth, tell the person that you are already past that stage and that you have accepted yourself for who you are. Never allow yourself to fall into their trap. Because if you do, you will regret having born with whatever that makes you feel as a lesser person in life.