When one is in a relationship where one expects to eventually lead to marriage,there are obvious signs that make one know that a certain commitment will lead nowhere.These can be any of the following:
-This is where your spouse wants intimacy in the relationship but leaves everything to you.He may tell you that if you get unwanted pregnancy,it will be your lone problem.It is good for you discuss some issues together due to the end result that may arise.For the case of pregnancy,you need to discuss on the best contraception method to use as partners.
-Your spouse may refuse to take you to go meet his family arguing that you will get married to him and not his family members.Getting to know them is important for they will be future in-laws.
-It may turn out that one dating a married man who insists that he is with the other woman because of the child and the responsibility that is required of him.This is a lie since he is already committed in marriage and can also do to you like he is doing to the other woman.
-If you unexpectedly meet his/her family member and evades the introduction part as to who you are to him/her.Your partner may even give a lame excuse and leave immediately.This show no commitment at all.
-In case of any conflict,you cannot sit together and solve your problem at hand.It’s good for partners to be able to discuss issues affecting their relationship negatively.
-Where there is physical abuse,such a relationship may not end well.This is because there are so many options of reaching an agreement and so any fights in a relationship leaves a lot to be desired.
-If your partner is not honest in his/her workplace depending on things that one has done to his/her colleagues at work.He may also do some nasty things to you and so this should raise a red flag.