So many factors can determine the future of a healthy romantic relationship. It is upon the lovebirds to weigh and see the future of their love without straining so hard to fit well with someone–
1. In school
-For those in school is whether your partner encourages in anything concerning studies For example giving past papers for revision?
-Have ones grades improved or fallen since the start of this relationship.
-Is there missing of school due to the relationship with this person.
2. Physical health
-Has one limited the extra-curriculum activities so that one can spend time with his/her partner?
-IS there any contraction of sexually transmitted infections from this person?
-For those in the university, has one had any injuries due to any fights involved with a partner?
-Is there a case of any unwanted pregnancy as a result of this relationship?
3. Emotional health
-For those in the university, does one feel better or worse since entering in this relationship?
-Is one more stressed or even having a low self-esteem since the beginning of the relationship?
-Is there trouble in sleeping?
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-Is there increased use of alcohol or smoking because of the relationship?
-Does one drinking or use drugs to be more comfortable in the relationship?
5. Family and friends
-Has the relationship affected how one relates with friends and family members?
-How do your families feel about the relationship?
-What comments from friends concerning the relationship?
-How do friends feel about the partner?
-How does the partner talk about one’s family?
-Has one grown apart from family due to the relationship?
Is there any element of jealousy to one’s family by the partner?
-Is there spending time separately or there is mingling even with family and friends?
The above factors help one to gauge if a relationship is moving towards the right direction, and that is if the answers are positive.
Be happy in love