For an unhealthy relationship, get out of it no need to hang on

Just a few days ago, we were treated with some shocking news of an army man who allegedly shot his girlfriend before turning the gun on himself. According to the neighbors, the two had a heated argument which arose after this man was dumped by the girlfriend with reports that she was dishing him for another man.

Looking at this incident, one wonders how a romantic relationship gone sour could mean that it’s either such a couple remain together in may be forced love or if anyone decides otherwise, death is the only option. What happened to moral lessons of being in a healthy relationship that clearly shows that its worth for the two lover birds being together.

How compatible are you with your current partner, lover or friend? Did you know that אסטרולוגיה can reveal a whole new level of understanding between people simply by looking at their astrology chart and that of their partner? What are the potentials for the relationship? Everyone wants to believe that they get along well with others but we have all met people with whom we didn’t get along well. Wouldn’t it be nice to know ahead of time whether or not two people are compatible? Whether your partner / spouse is going to cheat in a relationship? It would save a lot of time and effort. In 12 months period every year you see cold weather, warm weather, rainy season, and sometimes witness earth quakes, hurricanes, and tornados. In the same manner in relationship you will see good times, bad times, good sex, love, romance, sickness, bad health, accidents, loss of job, loss of money etc. Couples who are compatible will stay together during good or bad times and will support each other. Couples who are not compatible will be together during good times and they separate when the challenging time comes in their lives. It is like this, when you have a nice bottle of champagne on your table everybody likes you. The moment the bottle gets empty, people leave and you are left alone. The compatibility between two people has to be at many different levels to be happy in a relationship. Astrological compatibility or Relationship Compatibility Astrology or Business Compatibility Astrology is the branch of astrology that studies relationships between two people by comparing their natal horoscopes for Astrology Compatibility or Relationship Compatibility or Business Compatibility. A natal horoscope is a chart, map, or imaginary snapshot of the planets in the Solar System and their positions in the zodiac at the exact time of a person’s birth.

This incident clearly shows that you are in love today but any form of misunderstanding brings about uncontrolled anger that may lead to something fatal even when those involved have been in love even if for a long time. (learn more about of how to cope with a relationship here thegirlfriendactivationsystem.com) I have always thought that better a broken relationship that a failed marriage but after this incident, this definitely have created some reservations. If your relationship has flatly failed, why can’t you just leave it and move on in peace?

In this case, something might have been brewing that this girl felt that she was not okay in this relationship but too bad that her man was reading from another page of the book. This incident attracted massive comments and I saw someone mention that maybe this man may had invested heavily in terms of finances like may be educating this girl being the reason why he couldn’t stomach her leaving him. Learn about how to last longer in bed for men. But the question that arises here is; should partners courting entrust using their money on a relationship that is not clear whether it’s healthy or unhealthy?

I think its good to always examine your relationship closely before taking things seriously deep inside yet it seems like there are predictions hanging over the two of you in love. Now that they are both dead, only a vacuum that has been left with both families wishing that had they confined in anyone, maybe this ought not to have been the case. It’s one thing to be in love, then having that secure feeling that your relationship means a lot to you two thus calls for commitment but if things change for the worse, then take the break-up positively and move on.

Girl FACE-Off Her Ex-boyfriend In Church

Counselling / Pixabay (mending the broken heart) 

This is why she never stepped in that church again, how did it happen?

A month and two weeks earlier, she found her boyfriend in bed with someone else. Things did not end well that she cried for days until someone suggested to her that she needed a relationship counselor.

Having nothing else she could do to end her darkest moment in her love life, she accepted the offer to join counselling classes.

Things were turning great. Every moment meant something in her life. She learned to accept herself and to move on with life as is. She even started attending church services, draw herself close to God and to experience first hand life in Christ.

Well, with lots of activities in her life she almost forgot her heartbreak and this was good for her healing process.

But one day, a Sunday, the pastor was preaching about perseverance and why the people — Christians— should not be ready to give up easily.

In the middle of the sermon, the pastor’s message was sinking in so well in the minds of the people that the whole congregation found itself so enthusiastic with the word of God. Then the pastor, said

Tell your neighbor, “Neighbor! It is not yet over…”’

As she turned to her neighbor, she found out that he was the same person who broke her heart. An ex-boyfriend whom she ad decided to avoid for the rest of her life.

Why could she you have done?

She looked at him and said,

Satan, it is so over with you…”

Unfortunately, she said this while in that awkward moment state. Damn! When everyone in the church was seated and the whole congregation was so quiet.

Obviously, everyone heard about it. All eyes were on two people, her and her ex-boyfriend, who were still standing staring at each other.

Yep! It was time to walk away. Fly away and never to be seen again.

When a Man Feels Worthless

that worthlessness, the feeling that can’t be solved easily johnhain / Pixabay 

When she goes out, he desperately waits for her. He knows very well that she is seeing someone else but he has to wait because his love for her comes fast before anything else.

According to him, he knows the person his wife sees very often— two to four times a week. But he has stood firm with his marriage and will never let anything come between them.

Whether her other lover knows this or not, it is not his problem. And that he chose to learn to live with it since he has a problem that only another man can solve for his marriage…

What? It is sad that this is a psychological problem that he has to deal with.  If a man can’t rise in the time of need, then it is much likely to be found in that tight situation. He may be in love with his wife so much but he has to let his mind work straight like a real man.

For some women, they find this as an opportunity to go and get sexual satisfaction outer marriage—as the case with this friend of mine. However, not all women will be in a hurry to jump into bed with someone else. There are other means to do it when that feeling arises.

Men fighting against this problem usually think they are lesser men. They have to make big sacrifices just to make things look great in their marriages. But in within in that silent moment, the world is not that better place for them.

It is hard to come in terms with the reality. It may take like forever for a man to accept that he can’t perform in bed. It is sickening and worrying like hell.

Anyway, there are chances that the problem can just vanish—- but it can’t then one has to accept it a live a happy life.

the people we never understand

It’s Never Okay

The moment she start misbehaving, just know that you let it happen so long ago and that she has no turning back.

the people we never understand

889464 / Pixabay

In most cases, you pushed her against the wall, she did not complain, you dragged her on rough grounds, she did no protest, you made her see no future, but she kept quiet on it, you made her feel the shame of this world, but because of love, she held onto what she believed would work someday. However, she just made it obvious that you are not worth her struggle and that she has her life to live.

When you make those simple loud mistakes, most women would not face you and talk to you about it, they would just sit quiet and force that ugly happening into the limbo. From there, they would seek for means to address it in favorable time. But if their ways of approach proves to be tiresome and tricky, they would live with it waiting for another chance—- they just don’t forget.

In this world, we have two types of women, the calculating one and the realistic one. In these two, if you happen to have the calculating woman, then you must be careful on how to treat her. These are the kind of women who would show no signs of hurting. Their main answer to any mistake is always ‘It is okay.’ Mm! With women it is never ‘Okay’, you better know this.

Well, the realistic ones would give you all time you need to make changes that you want. They would push you, remind you and some would threaten you just to bring you back into your senses. They are good people to have around, but some confuse this personality to ‘nagging.’

Okay, these two types forms larger women society. If a woman who was good makes a negative move, then know it has been brewing for a long while. She never showed her inner self until the perfect moment. Blame it on you, not anyone else.

 

 

Love triangle killings

For quite some time now, there have been increased incidents of university students killing one another due to love related reasons. The most related incident is a first-year student killing a fourth-year student after an argument ensued concerning the latter’s girlfriend.

It was a sad incident that left the country wondering what life has become, why kill your love rival instead of thinking much better about the whole relationship. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is having another relationship out there, then it means he or she is not someone worth to be your future husband or wife.

For students, life is much better if wise judgment is given the first hand in almost everything. There is nothing bad about being rejected or being treated as a third person. One only has to understand that not all that glitters are golden, and those who pretend to be special sometimes ends up being like your foot-mat in future.

The future is bright for bright minds out there. Every wrong mistake, wrong decisions, and wrong moves draws you close to failure. You don’t want that to happen, right? Cool! Then you have to start thinking much better than normal lifestyle. Students in higher learning institutions should live by their status. Learning is part of life too. Books only show us the way, but how we implement what we have learnt in real life is what that matters.

Why kill someone just because of love? Anger does more damage than good. The damage caused by anger can destroy the rest of your life. Students have a future to gamble with, but what they do not understand is how a simple mistake might land them in worst mess than what they have ever thought of.

People make mistakes! Love triangles thrive where true love is a thing that cannot be put into practice, but rather a waste of time. People should be careful about who to love and when to love.

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