Young people always find themselves in a relationship that may be unworthy to be in due to problems here and there.So it is important for those in a relationship to identify if the relationship is healthy or not.
Signs that your partner is not ready for marriage
1. If you find yourself working into his/her busy agenda. This raises a red flag if one of the partner is ever busy to even commit sometime to be with the lover.
2. He/she avoids anything when it comes to meeting the future in-laws.
3. If most of ones friends are single or very young than ones age.This is because companionship shapes ones way of life.
4. If he has no big picture plans for example how his family will be like so this shows that he is not ready for a wife.
So don’t commit to anyone who you see that you have no future together.
You should not also give in to your partner’s sexual demands.
Pressure to have sex can come from hormones,peer pressure especially from your friends,advertising in the media and continued nagging by ones partner.
Remaining abstinence is possible if you follow these steps to be on the safe side:
-Refusal shills-Say NO in a strong,firm voice.
-Protect yourself from peer pressure that is avoiding such friends who are out to influence your real self negatively.
-Be pressure proof-Say NO repeatedly to stress your point.This is okay since your partner will have no opportunity to make you say otherwise.
-Use strong body language that say NO and really show you mean it.
-Make you decisions known and stand by it meaning your partner should not make you to change for selfish benefits.
-Avoiding tempting situations such as avoid a topic concerning the sex subject.You can also move from the point where you are talking especially if it’s in an enclosure.