It was in a morning radio show when a man called and said that his wife once told a friend that she prefers to be with a partner who drinks. This man said that he does not drink and is always home early after the close of his business.
He further added that he cannot go to places that he has not planned for so as to pass time and please his wife by going home later in the evening. Moreover, he said that he has always thought being home early was something good for the family and wondered whether his wife would prefer someone who goes home very late or even fail to appear at home altogether.
So listeners were asked to air their take on this issue,
So the first caller a lady said that her husband do not drink and is always at home monitoring her every move and even asking unnecessary questions. She quickly pointed out that she would prefer a drinking one ten times.
Then this other lady said men who take alcohol always take for their families for outings when they are out with their friend enjoying drinks. She said that the non drinking men do not bother creating time for family recreation.
Then a caller man said that women are never satisfied with what men do and he particularly mentioned that they have been complaining that men have no time for the family. He continued to say that when your wife sees you around too often, she claims to need some space and so will always see their men at fault.
Then this other lady said men should not be home too early and as such should look for something else to do as a hobby. She also said that they should also create time and be there when the family needs them.
I think this issue of drinking depends on an individual and so no one should be influenced into doing it.