Rebuilding a Marriage



The divorce rates are high, probably because it’s easier to get a divorce, and because people aren’t willing to make amends. Marriage is work. It’s a better for worse kind of union. An argument or arguments shouldn’t send people to divorce court, it has to be something drastic to cause one to want a divorce, God doesn’t like divorce and He would rather we try our very best to hold the marriage together.

Another reason why marriages fade away have to do with the reasons for marrying. Some people marry because of physical attraction. That is something that most likely won’t last. The physical can fade and when it does then that person will search for the next physical thing. Some marry for money, if that happens, the person with the money will lose the person if the money is no longer there. If one doesn’t marry for love then the changes of the union holding together will be slim. People can learn to love one another and that can take some time.

Couples who have different views may find themselves at war with one another. Until there’s mutual understanding, the marriage will continuously fade, and in time it will be dissolved. It’s important that praying couples continue to pray, reading the bible, and taking time to connect with one another. The best thing that married couples can do is to go to bed without being angry. Set aside the differences and make up before you both lay your heads on the pillow.

It’s time to build stronger marriages and love endlessly. Sometimes we go through deep trials and we consider giving up but it may not be a good idea. Trying to work out a marriage is a good thing, some marriages can’t be saved, and others can be salvaged through dedication. Both parties have to want it. You never know what you will find if you leave the marriage. You could find yourself in worse shape if you did. Pray for your marriage and allow God to guide you through it.

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Success Isn’t the Same for Everyone

Some people may believe that being successful means that they have to have a lot of money. For some that’s the only way they perceive it. Is it really so? Huh? Well is it? I’m just asking? Success is in all of us. It’s when we wake up in the morning. As soon as we hear those birds chirping, we’ve experienced success, we made it to a brighter day.

We can experience success in our homes, in our relationships, and in our careers. Not believing that we’re successful will lead us to become demotivated and that’s not good. We should feel the passion and feel strong about each positive step that we’re apart of.

Yes, we should want to be financially stable, live comfortable. We should want to live in peace. How can one become successful? If they’re living and have their needs met, they’ve hit the success mark, there’s more but we have to be patient for it. Wait on it. Success could be delivered to us or we can work hard to obtain more of it. We’ve already experienced some “success” in our lives. It’s not hard to believe that we’re already successful. Transform our minds and believe that more good things will head our way.

How many people look at others and wonder how did they become successful? You really want to know. They believed in themselves, they had someone to believe in them, they didn’t give up. Giving up should never be an option. We should work smarter towards our goals and refuse to be defeated.

People will tell others that they’re not as successful as the next person but that shouldn’t hinder anyone from trying to reach the goals that they feel they should reach. Having success is living, living each day to max, enjoying each moment. Learning from the good and bad times. We can improve our success level but in order to do that. We must change our way of thinking. We can’t stop trying to do better or stop trying to be better than we were the day before.

“Believe That it can be done. Believe That You Will Accomplish it.” (Tiki33)

 
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Inspire to be an Uplifter

If people continue to tear others down then we will continue to experience a downfall. Some people refuse to be positive at anytime and in anyway. The more one grows the more one comes in contact with people who aren’t “happy” about what they’re doing. Those who lift others up will find themselves in stronger positions to move ahead.

Sometimes we’ll come across people who do nothing but try to drag us down and that isn’t healthy. If they have nothing positive to offer and they’re in constant competition then it’s best to remove those people from your life. Only insecure people will try to tear others down. Allow your “uniqueness” to shine.

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There’s a lot of motivation out there. We have to seek it out because being surrounded by negativity will only make us feel bitter. There’s people who are willing to life others up and we should be apart of those communities. The best way to encourage others is to offer them “hope.” Anyone who can uplift others in negative environments are “heaven sent.” Those who believe in seeing others do well are blessed.

No one can tear us down if we don’t allow them. Of course it will shock anyone to think that there’s so many negative people out there. Be thankful for those who at least try to uplift others and aren’t concerned about competing with others. We should want to build others up and be happy that people are trying to do “good.”

Helping others in even the smallest ways are important. We should help one another grow and be proud of it. Uplifting our our community is a way to help build lives. It’s necessary, we could use some more positive figures, inspiring people. Sounds awesome! Spreading love all around helps us stay lifted up. Perhaps all of us should try it.

“There’s Always Hope. Never Think Hope has Left us.”

Accomplishing it In Spite of

When ever you do something that others may not agree with or don’t understand, you may make some uncomfortable with that, and that can make them angry. It doesn’t matter what people think. They can’t live for you. We all must do what’s best for us. Don’t stop going after what you want out of life because it will make people uncomfortable. Fight for those dreams. By fighting I mean, keep going, even when the hecklers present themselves.

Why did you put your dreams on hold in the first place? Was it fear? Fear holds people back. People would rather do away with their dreams in order to please others. While they’re sitting happy somewhere. You’re disappointed and sad because you didn’t do what you enjoy. Life isn’t about living to please others. We can help others that’s something we should do but we can’t spend our lives trying to make others happy. That’s up to them.

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If you haven’t started on your “journey” then perhaps you should. There’s no time like the present. You certainly don’t want to live with regrets. Regrets that you’ll be reminded about each day. Doing what we love will make us happy. If we waste our lives on doing something just to get by then we will be miserable. Misery is certainly no fun. So don’t indulge in it.

Experience new things. Laugh and continue to be apart of “growth.” You were destined to do great things so why should you sit back and allow those “opportunities” to pass you by? You will be criticized but if you don’t do anything at all, you’ll be criticized for that, so shouldn’t you follow your dreams?

Be happy, find something that will make you smile, love deeply. Enjoy this life because you only have one. We’re here on this earth only one time and then there’s eternal life with our Father. As long as there’s breath in our bodies, we have a chance to do something great, we have a chance to be apart of “greatness.”

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