Dealing With Someone who has Anti Social Personality Disorder



Anti Social Personality Disorder is a mental condition which is one of the hardest conditions to treat. What makes Anti Social Personality Disorder hard to treat is. 1. The one diagnosed with the condition refuses to go to therapy 2. Refuses treatment. So anyone having to deal with the manic episodes, unrudely behavior, and impulse control issues will need therapy themselves.

A person with this disorder usually doesn’t think before reacting. They’re easily irritated and are cruel. When the mania wears off. They may display gentleness. It won’t last long. They rarely plan ahead and are great manipulators. Anyone dealing with them must be on guard. Hoping with someone who has Anti Social Personality Disorder is draining. I should know because my husband was diagnosed with the condition about a little over 6 years.

It’s one of the worst mental disorders I’ve ever seen. Possibility due to the fact that the person refuses treatment. In order for me to keep my sanity. I pray and listen to spiritual music. Just because someone has Anti Social Personality Disorder that doesn’t mean that they can not be somewhat functional. My husband is a Correctional Officer which may not help with the condition but he seems to enjoy being an Authority figure. Most imates are diagnosed with Anti Social Personality Disorder.

A person with the condition aren’t very keen on Authority. They can get into lots of trouble on their jobs but because of the diagnosis. They’re able to kerp their jobs but may be reprimanded. Anti Social Personality Disorder also consist of angry outburts. Anything can set them off. Living with them may be unbearable. It is justed to stay in seperate homes or seperate sleeping quarters.

Sometimes people end up feeling sorry for them and that could cause them to be more dysfunctional. One must be firm and have a take no mess attitude so that they’re not ran over. People with such personalities will try to take advantage of others. They’re very self obsorbed. Most of the time they take action if it’s beneficial to them. A person with the disordet could normally be a kind and gentle person but due to disorder it’s basically not a reality.

If you’re dealing with someone who has Anti Social Personality Disorder then you may want to find positive outlets. It’s not easy dealing with someone who has this mental condition but either we find ways to deal with it or we remove ourselves out of tge situation. We must protect our mental health as well.

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Stop Wasting Time Trying to Compete

If we’re confident enough then we won’t be focusing on competing against others. Too much competitiveness can be dangerous. We should focus on bettering ourselves and doing what we love. Spending our lives trying to compete against others will leave us feeling inadequate. We’ll feel unhappy and miserable.

Life should be filled with joy and happiness not filled with low self esteem. We should be confident in ourselves. Believing that we can be apart of awesomeness. Our lives aren’t complete when we focus on who has who has what. We will do things differently so we should desire to be “different.” We never know what someone had to go through to obtain what they have or are trying to obtain. We all can’t have the same things.

Trying to compete will leave us fatigued. There’s nothing wrong with bettering ourselves but if we’re doing it to out do our brothers and sisters then we will be dissatisfied. In order to feel complete we must be happy with ourselves. We can’t put ourselves down by focusing on what others have. Our focus should be on creating a better life for ourselves. Competing can wear us down. A little competition could be healthy but if competing is non stop then there’s a problem.

We should want to stay mentally healthy and if we’re so focused on competition then we could suffer mentally. We are who we are. We can make changes but we can not change who God created us to be. Too many people lose themselves by thinking they’re not adequate. We can perform better by focusing on what we need to do to create a better living. Wasting time on being a competitor for too long will not only drain us but it will keep us unbalanced. There’s so many opportunities awaiting us but we will end up missing them by focusing on competition.

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Run the Other way From Toxicity

Toxins what can one say about them? They seep into our lives and sometimes it’s hard to remove them from our lives. Sometimes we’resurrounded by toxic personalities. Some people are use to being filled with unhealthy ways of thinking. We’ve all had not so good thoughts and emotiins but toxic people are on a different level. You never know what they’ll come up with next. If we have toxic friends then that toxicity could rub off on us.

Coming in contact with toxic people can be devastating. Their behaviors can create a very unhealthy environment for anyone that comes in contact with them. Most of tge time they’re unaware of tgeir toxicity and other times toxic people simply don’t care. There’s no rationalizing with them. They will think the way they want to think and that’s that. Either we find a way to deal with them or we avoid them completely.

Sometimes we live with toxic people and it’s kind of hard to get away from them. If we can find a space where we’re able to gather our thoughts then that will help. It’s as if they’re filled with a poisonous mindset. Although they’re way of thinking isn’t normal. They may perceive it to be so. No matter how hard we try to get them to see things our wsy. They probably won’t.

We must concentrate on our sanity and find activities that will help us feel better. Being surrounded by toxic people can dampen our spirits. In order for us to be happy we will neec to find the best techniques when dealing with toxic people. If we don’t then we could become ill due to their unhealthy behaviors. It’s important that we take care of our mental health.

If a family member demonstrates toxicity behavior then we can try letting them know that their behavior is unacceptable. If the behavior continues then we may have to disconnect from them at least for awhile. We do not have to tolerate such behaviors. It isn’t healthy to have too much exposure to toxicity.

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Don’t Allow Overthinking to get the Best of you

Sometimes our thoughts run from us. Thinking too long and hard can cause issues for us. We have to allow our minds to relax. We don’t think to over think. It can keep one up for long periods of time. There’s simplicity but we may not allow it in because our minds are racing.

When we over think. We tend to over analyze situations when situations are simple. If we want to keep our minds peaceful. We should avoid thinking about those things that will cause our minds to race. Thinking about something positive will stop the over thinking. Some words, actions, and communications can embedd in our thoughts. That’s why we’re encouraged to think positive.

Finding ways to relax our minds will produce better health. Stressful minds aren’t healthy at all and it can create a break down. Thinking of things we love will help precent us from thinking about something negative. Thinking too much will put us in a bad mood.

We have to learn to control our thoughts. Reading good books and engaging in positive activities will take on minds off of unhealthy and long thoughts. We don’t need to think about anything that won’t generate peace but realistically we will at some point. We shouldn’t ponder on it too long.

Sometimes it can be difficult not to think about certain things but if it’s preventing us from sleeping then we need to toss it to the side. There’s so many things that can occupy our mind. Mediatation is a great way to stop us from over thinking. We should try to most effective and positive ways to help us gather our thoughts. We can do without allowing our minds to be stressed. Too much stress can also cause health issues for us and that isn’t good for our minds. Don’t over think it won’t make us happy.

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Sometimes we Come in Contact Destructive People

Sometimes we find ourselves in some disasterous situations and we’re exposed to some destructive people. If we spend too much time with their ways could rough off on us. That’s why it’s often stated to surround ourselves with positive people. Sometimes we’re unaware of how destructive people are until it’s too late.

Dealing With Destructive People

When we find ourselves having to deal with destructive behavior. We need to be cautious but we should be stern so that they understand just how damaging their behavior is. We may not be able to control their actions but we can find ways to coexist with them. We can limit our time with them and keep our sanity. When people are destructive they may damage anyone they come in contact with.

Not everyone is loving andkind. Some have a lack of compassion and empathy so they may try to sabotage anything that resembles doing something positive. Their behavior will leave them in an unstable state. Living with a destructive person difficult and one will never know what they’ll come up with next.

We must protect ourselves and we should warn others about their behavior. Some may find themselves stressed when dealing with someone who demonstrates destructive behavior. Their actions could upset us and we may feel uneasy being around someone who’s destructive and wanting to damage others. We don’t have to tolerate the behavior. Sometimes we’ll need to distance ourselves from the destructive bahavior.

People who display such behavior may want to cause grief because of something they refused to deal with from past experiences. We don’t have to beat ourselves up because we’ve faced someone else’s issues. We don’t have to take them on. Taking on others issues will leave us fatigued. If we have to break for it then that’s what we’ll have to do. Keeping our minds healthy is inportant. Don’t allow destructive behaviors of others cause a meltdown for yourself and loved ones.

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Don’t Have Time for That

There comes a time when we can figure out what our priorities are. There’s so many important things in life and sometimes we may get caught up with the not so important things. If it’s something that will weigh us down and something that won’t offer us the benefits of living then we don’t need to be bothered with it. People have way too many other things that they must attend to so therefore one shouldn’t spend their lives focusing on things that won’t offer them any growth. If it’s something that will help us develop then perhaps we should place it on our agenda.

For instance so many of us are spending way too much time on what goes on with social media. Social Media is a great source to use for business and advertising but it can also be used to create depression for others. “Media News Today reported on a study suggesting that Facebook use may feed anxiety and increase a person’s feeling of inadequacy (2012).” Too much social media isn’t healthy and it really isn’t a priority however if one has a brand, business, or needs to use it for advertising then it may have importance but sometimes we go overboard with it and that’s when problems arise.

When something isn’t a priority it can create headaches for us and social media is one of those things. Too much exposure can leave us feeling insecure and unhappy. Egos seems to take place on social media and that could also create issues for those who are effected by the egos and the ones with the egos. That’s why it’s so important that we spend more time in the reality then than cyber space. If we don’t prioritize then we will feel uneasy. Social Media is a great way to socialize but if it’s affecting our health then we may need to step away from it for some period of time.

Not having our priorities in order can create issues in our daily lives. It’s important that we don’t get too caught up with things that won’t offer us what we need for a happy life. We may become so consumed with things that could be damaging to us and that could cause our lives to be in shambles. There’s our homes, jobs, and family that may need our attention so we should focus on those things but if we fail to do so and place our attention on things that won’t help us advance then we will suffer greatly.

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Avoid Negatives and Smile

There’s some people we rather avoid. You know the type. The ones who want to be so involved that they rather give others a kick in the rear. When you see them coming, you move quickly in the other direction, that’s the type of energy they project. Too much negativity can be damaging but of course we can’t totally avoid the bad but we shouldn’t always be exposed to the negatives.

Some people may not know how to be positive so therefore everything they say or do may be perceived as negative. Sometimes negative vibes are shown because they need to gain attention. If there’s communication about their negativity and they still demonstrate it then it’s best to avoid them altogether. We don’t need to surround ourselves around people who will only drag us down.

Negative Environments

Negative environments are like an epidemic. They’re sometimes so out of control that it makes us want to stay far, far, away from such environments. ┬áIf we’re exposed to such environments for too long then we will become frustrated and fatigued. We should find positive people to share our time with and we should be exposed to some positive environments.

If we’re surrounded by negative people too often and too long then we may become negative as well. Negativity has shaken up people’s lives. Too much of it can affect our minds and that’s why we shouldn’t be exposed to it for too long. We should want joy and to be able to celebrate life. That’s hard to do if we’re consumed with negativity. We have a choice whether we want to keep company with negative friends or family.

No one has to be consumed with the negatives. If we find ourselves feeling frustrated because we’ve been exposed to negative people and environments then we should find a way to relax. Negativity generates stress and we certainly can do without stress. It’s best to find friends who love seeing people “prosper.”

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Find the Right way to Deal With Egos and Insecurities

“Egos want to stay relevant while dreamers keep moving” (T.Paulk). Sometimes we come across those who have over grown egos and those who are dealing with insecurities. We may feel annoyed with the egotism because it goes on and on. We must find the most effective ways to deal with these type of people.

We should first protect ourselves by limiting our time with them. If we have to deal with them in some way then we will need to observe which techniques work best. We must avoid feeding the ego and although we may become upset with the behavior. It’s important that we try to stay calm. Egotistical people feed off of reactions. They’re goal is to cause misery and to stay relevant.

We must stand up to them but find the appropriate ways to do so. An egotistical person can demonstrate bullying behavior and because of their insecurities they’re quite fearful. We should let them know that we refuse to tolerate their dysfunctional behaviors. We may have to get the law involved if the bullying transfers into threatening behavior. If we allo their tactics to go on then we’ll experience great suffering.

It’s important that anyone dealing with an egotical person remains consistent with telling them that their behavior will not be tolerated. Stand firm and mean what you say. Distance yourself from them because it can rub off on you. Don’t be fearful when standing up to them. Be stern but don’t display threatening behavior. Make eye contact if you can and refuse to listen to their explanations.

Tell them how you feel and go somewhere to occupy your mind. Egos need food and your reactions and your moods are their food. Think about some positive things and find things that offers joy for you. The worst thing anyone can do is to give in to egotistical people and to baby their insecurities. If they try to make life difficult for you then ask a professional to get involved.

Sometimes the law needs to get involved in order to prevent harm to the one on the receiving end. An ego wants attention those who display ego behavior want to feel superior. They want to be accepted somehow and they may display annoying behavior to get what they want. Don’t give in because if you do then they may perceive your actions as a means to continue their behavior.

Don’t feed egos and don’t allow anyone to drown you with their insecurities. If someone is unable to deal with not being the center of the world then that’s too bad. No one is obligated to deal with a person’s issues. They can choose to do so if they please but if they want to keep their sanity then they should seek out a professional. Be vigilant and keep your mind healthy. We may have to interact with egotistical people but they shouldn’t run our lives.

This blog is an observational piece and entails life’s experiences.

It’s a Very Competitive World

People are constantly competing for this or that. Although we have games, we’re not suppose to compete, but competition exist and there’s nothing we can do about it. Competition can get out of hand. Those who have competitive spirits will do just about anything to win. They’re not concerned who they step over.Winning is embedded in their minds so they refuse to let that mindset go.

Some people are unable to accept that they don’t have to compete. If a person is better at something then that’s alright. We’re all different and we have different talents. Everything isn’t a serious matter. People will go to extreme measures to win at something. When competition isn’t necessary and competing still takes place. That could result in continuous unhealthy actions. There’s nothing wrong with displaying our talents but if we feel obsessed with wanting to beat someone at something then there’s a problem,

Some people spend their lives wanting to win. They may drive themselves crazy trying to prove that they’re good at something. Insecurities take over and they begin to behave erratic. A little competition isn’t harmful but too much of it can destroy. When a person becomes in tuned with competing. They don’t care who they knock down. They just want to win.

The best thing to do when it comes to a competitor is to keep doing whatever it is that you do. Don’t egg them on. Just continue with your tasks and let them compete if they want. Even if they declare that they’re winners. Smile and proceed. Dealing with those who have competitive spirits isn’t easy but in order to keep your sanity. You will have to stay clear of the competition and do whatever it is that you do best.

Don’t allow competitors to run you away. They may try to intimidate others but people shouldn’t be intimidated. Some competitors suffer from conditions that cause them to feel as if they need to compete. They may not listen to anyone telling them that there’s no need to compete. One shouldn’t waste their time trying to get them to understand something that they may not be willing to understand. Don’t allow competition to get the best of you.

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How to Find the Peace you Need

Being calm is important, it helps keep us healthy, the more we’re exposed to stress. The more likely we’ll develop health issues. We won’t be able to avoid stressful situations completely but we can sure lower our stress levels. One way to do this is to remove toxic people out of our lives. if they’re unable to offer some “peace” then they don’t need to be apart of our lives. It’s important that we allow ourselves to experience peaceful moments. We shouldn’t constantly be exposed to chaos.

If we find ourselves being riddled with stress then we need to break away from those areas and anyone who refuses to offer us peacefulness. A little stress will come but too much of it can create other issues for us. When we’re stressed we’re unable to function properly. That can lead to making mistakes that could’ve been avoided if we were in the land of peace. Those who want to keep us stressed should receive an in depth communication from us and if they refuse to stop producing stress for us then we need to do what’s best for us.

No one should want us to be filled with stress, our friends shouldn’t want it, and if they do then they don’t deserve that title. Being able to experience peacefulness is a blessing. There’s some people who rarely get the opportunities to experience peace because they’ve placed so much on themselves. We’ll do that. Sometimes we’ll produce stress for ourselves, worrying about that out of our control. Stress and worry are enemies and they can cause us to be broken and that’s something we don’t need.

We have to find things that offer us peace. Soothing music can produce some peace, meditation, and reading and also help. We shouldn’t be exposed to chaotic environments too long. If we allow the chaos to enter our minds then we’ll start demonstrating dysfunctional behavior. There’s a lot of major issues going on in this world but that doesn’t mean that we have to be all wrapped up in it. We have to relax our minds and we must allow our bodies to have rest. No rest, no peace, no peace means we’re experiencing some chaos and that can be avoided.

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