Life is Precious

We never know what tomorrow holds. Life is precious. My uncle passed Thanksgiving morning and that took something out of me. We could be hear today and gone tomorrow. It brought back the tears when my father died. I’m alright because I know that my uncle is no longer suffering.

Losing a loved one isn’t easy but it’s God’s will. Death was promised. With everything that goes on, we simply have to find a way to get through our trials, life is short. A lot of people are leaving this world and it’s ashame to spend it in sadness. It’s best to smile even when we’re going through. Laugh and feel the joy. There’s joy in this world even when we hear so much about war.

I will get to see my father’s side of the family tomorrow. My dad’s sister wants me to be there and I will be there if the Lord is willing. We never know if that loved one will leave us. Life can be unpredictable and there’s a whole lot of trouble in this world so we should spend time with our loved ones.

Time passes by, it moves rather quickly, at least it seems that way. Being able to talk to those close to us is a blessing. Sometimes our minds will wonder and we may think about those special memories that were shared with our relatives that passed on.

Losing a father, both grandmothers, and both grandfathers is rough. Losing the person who raised me is extra rough but life goes on. As long as those memories stay in minds. That means a lot. I pray they don’t fade. Our time is limited and we should be thankful for everday we’re able to rise. It’s time to do the things I love. We should love others and we need to love ourselves.

I Love you Uncle Tony. Rest in Peace.

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Don’t Appreciate me God has A Plan

No,no,no the one that’s there gets no respect. Why? I mean it makes no sense. How many men would appreciate hot meals, back rubs, fresh hair cuts for free? Well, that hubby didn’t. Oh no. What kind of man looks at his wife on the ground and doesn’t try to help her up? Terrible.

Why would a husband try to compete with his wife? A wife isn’t a competitor. She’s a wife. You’re suppose to care for her and cherish her. My goodness. Why wouldn’t you spend time with your children? Selfish. Trying to make your wife look bad and trying to claim my ideas. Get your own. Laughing at me when I’m in pain. Is that what husbands are suppose to do?

Getting upset when you don’t get your way. “Stand on Your Feet.” Stop relying on your mother to get everything for you. Shopping like there’s no tomorrow and putting all your orders in my name. I don’t wear men watches, size 11 Lebron shoes, and I don’t need to order clothes I’m not going to wear. That’s how water and lights get shut off. Don’t worry. Your mom will cover for you. From Boy to boy. Sometimes men aren’t allowed to be men. Perhaps they should “stand alone.”

How many husbands are envious of their wives or children’s achievements? That’s not how it’s suppose to be. You should support your children. Encourage them to do better. You should want them to excel. If the husband is out of order then the whole family is out of order. The husband is the head and the leader. He should be guiding his children and setting an example.

Becoming angry when they put your shoes on. Well, you took the shoes away, what kid wouldn’t want a nice pair of shoes on their feet? They may say, “I want some Lebron shoes,” seiko watch or some MCM beats. The ones that make good grades should receive something. Everything for yourself. Spending like crazy and allowing your mother to take care of you. Shame, shame, shame. Men should be men. No relationship with your children is just awful.

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Chilling With the Family Watching Football

We should appreciate family time. Times sitting, laughing, and watching some good old football. What a blessing. The boys going back and forth about who has the best team. If I’m rooting for Miami and my other son thinks Florida is the best. Florida Gators that is. What does he know? It’s nice to sit and relax, it creates bonding, Another win for the “U.” Oh yes. The youngest wants to talk nonstop.

We won, and that’s all that matters, we’re on a roll. Football takes the load off. Coach Scott seems do being a pretty good job. He’s filling in until they find a permanent replacement since Coach al. Golden’s firing. What’s next for today? Hmmm. Don’t know but the University of Miami should be happy with another win.

One of my son’s is saying, “Bye Felicia.” I don’t if anyone remembers that line from Friday.It appears to be late but it’s really not. Perhaps we’ll find a good movie to watch. I suppose that movie will come later because the Clemson game is on. Family time shouldn’t be taken lightly. There has to be a set time to spend time with one another. It seems as if our lives are filled with being busy.

Saturdays are a time to relax, although it was really set up for Church, until it was changed to Sundays. We try to spend that quality time and get some laighs in. My youngest son seems to think he’s a comedian so he has to put on a show. This is the times we get the chance to view what colleges have to offer. It makes sense, college football should equal advertising the academics, well enjoyed. Soon another one will be going off to college. Unbelievable but thank God for that. Well, some more talk because a touchdown occured. Of course I’m not so into this game. Clemson and Florida State but a Florida team is playing. Too nthe “U” game is over.

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