I think everyone is attracted to a certain type of person. They have qualities that they really like, and people tend to be more attracted to certain styles. Even a person’s hobbies and career path can have an impact on the type of people the attract.
For me, I really like nerdy guys.
Okay, so maybe it’s a cliche. Whatever. I can’t help it. I mean, I married a total nerd. He was in the band, and he was a huge Star Wars Fan. Even now, he is really into nerdy stuff. He likes to go to Comic Con, and he isn’t afraid to let his nerd flag fly. I love him for that.
I think being a nerd means you aren’t afraid to be yourself. You follow your passions, no matter what everyone might thing about it. That’s a really important trait to have, in my opinion.
I also tend to go for funny guys. My husband was the class clown, and I always loved how easily he could make me laugh. That’s one of the things that contributes to our happy relationship. Even after ten years, I still think he’s funny.
When it comes to appearance, I tend to go for tall guys that are a little on the thin side. I’m not sure why, though. I mean, I don’t purposely look for skinny guys. I just happened to be attracted to guys that are thin. I also like dark hair and dark eyes. My husband’s eyes are so dark they’re almost black. I always thought he’d pass those on to our children. Funnily enough, my daughter has blue eyes.
I think it’s important to know what your “type” is. That way, you know what you’re looking for in a partner. Plus, it can help you stay away from people you know you won’t be compatible with. However, I also think it’s important to keep an open mind. You never know who you might fall for, and, if they don’t match your “type” perfectly, you can know that it’s okay to deviate a little. Love is unexpected like that sometimes.