Humility is Much More Than Just a Word



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The bible teaches us that we should be humble and there are many passages that encourage humility. Still, it isn’t surprising that many people don’t live a humble life. This world is dominated by arrogance and pride and many people may not even understand that these are exactly the opposite of humility. I’ll confess that I often act in ways that are not humble, as they should be.

We all succumb to pride occasionally, so it is something that we need to continually work on; being humble. Mind you, some kinds of pride are good if your attitude is right and if thanks is given to God. Personally, I’m proud to have such a loving, understanding and forgiving Father. That is justified pride. I’m proud to have a healthy garden, though I acknowledge and give thanks to God for making it that way. My efforts would be nothing without his blessing.

What does the word ‘humble’ mean, anyway? According to Dictionary.com, the word comes from the Latin word “humilis”, which means “lowly, insignificant, on the ground.” Thus, when we kneel in prayer to God, we are humbling ourselves before Him, although in a very minor way. Again, this is the opposite of arrogance. An arrogant person tends not to bow down, though the time will come when they will.

Humility is important enough that it is mentioned many times in the bible and the bible gives strong indications of the advantages of being humble. Here are only a few examples:

Psalms 18:27 You [God] save the humble but bring low those whose eyes are haughty.

 

Psalms 25:9 He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.

 

Psalms 147:6 The LORD sustains the humble but casts the wicked to the ground.

 

Psalms 149:4 For the LORD takes delight in his people; he crowns the humble with victory.

 

Matthew 23:12 and Luke 14:11 For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.

 

James 4:10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.

This is all well and good, but many people who honestly try to be humble may not realize when they are being prideful. Here is a very common example; suppose a person tells another, “I’ll meet you there tomorrow at 10 o’clock.”

How does that person know that God doesn’t have other plans for the next day? God’s will comes first, so it is arrogant to presume that our plans will take precedent. They will not and cannot take precedence over the will of God.

Chances are good that a Christian wouldn’t mean to be arrogant. To be humble, though, the statement should be more along the lines of: “I’ll meet you there tomorrow at 10 o’clock, God willing.” Notice that the inclusion of just those two words puts the decision in the hands that it belongs in; God’s. Thus, this is a humble statement.

This is a minor example. There are many common examples of a lack of humility that are stronger and more pointed. Anytime you look at someone and think that they should be wearing something nicer or different, you are elevating yourself and are being arrogant rather than humble.

“You should learn how to drive!” is also an arrogant statement, presuming that the person making it is in a superior position that makes them qualified to judge. Bzzz…wrong! Only God is superior enough to be able to judge.

It is easy to see that many things that we say and do are not humble. This can then be considered as a work in progress. We have an excellent example of humility. The actions and words of Jesus were humble, though Jesus was the one person who would be justified in being somewhat less than humble. He taught as much by his actions as his words.

It would be very valid to put this down on our daily prayer request list; asking God to help us to be more humble than we are and to be mindful of our acts of arrogance and pride when they occur. With a greater awareness, perhaps we can walk the path of humility. I am guilty of not being humble like I should be and continually pray that my actions can show more humility. After all, everything that a Christian does is a direct reflection upon our Lord. Would we not want to be more like him, that the reflection would be an accurate one?

How often do you catch yourself lacking in humility? Do you even think about it during your day to day life?




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  • Andria Perry says:

    I have to ask God to guide my words and ways many days when people test my patience.

    • rextrulove says:

      I think that is something that most of us could say, if we are truthful, @andriaperry. Words spoken in anger come from a person who isn’t humble and who isn’t submitting themselves to God’s will. The fact that you ask Him to guide your words shows that you are mindful of this and that you are submitting. This is a very good thing.

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