If someone hurts you. If someone commits something bad. Are you willing to forgive and forget? Or you can just forgive, but not forget, vice versa ?
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Forgive and Forget 4 years agoAsk forgiveness and receive then forget it God does
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Forgive and Forget 4 years agoI like this group! For those who have trouble finding forgiveness for people who have wronged them, remember that the best part of forgiveness is that YOU are the one who benefits from it. Too much bitterness and grudge holding is just disease and illness manifesting from inside out, if you let it go for too long.
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So true. Forgiving doesn’t mean excusing what they did either. What they did is still wrong. We just have to let go of it though, for our own sake.
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SHOHANA posted an update in the group
Forgive and Forget 4 years, 1 month agoForgive someone is easy sometimes but forget is almost time difficult
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yes very true my friend.
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Agree! Forgetting is the part that is impossible. But the good news is that you don’t have to forget. It’s okay to have the memory there as long as you don’t dwell on it and allow it to do you any damage, right? 😉
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SHOHANA posted an update in the group
Forgive and Forget 4 years, 1 month agoA kind heart always ready to forgive and forget and I should try it
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Congrats! I think that sounds like a very beautiful, self-empowering goal to have. Best of luck to you. I know it can be tough to let go when someone has hurt you, but it’ll benefit YOU, so you are worth it 🙂
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hello n welcome dear
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thank you gorgeous 🙂
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Forgive and Forget 4 years, 2 months agoOnce hurt, it is not so easy to forget.
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And then there are people in our life who hurt us again and again.
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True! For those types of people, I eventually just distance myself from them, putting a kind of protective wall up around myself. I can usually still find some forgiveness, but it doesn’t mean we have to allow people to hurt and damage us. We just become smarter about who we can trust. 😉
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resuri posted an update in the group
Forgive and Forget 4 years, 2 months agoForgive and forget is not an easy task
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Yes, it takes courage to forgive from the heart.
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Agreed. It’s not easy to forget but time heals.
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Forgive and Forget 4 years, 2 months agoI do always try to forgive and not waste any time and energy on the people who’ve wronged me. It’s the forgetting that I struggle with LOL
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The best way to be at peace with self and others is by forgiving.
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Absolutely, @realityspeaks…..but I go one further by then keeping them at a wide berth 🙂 That’s for my sanity and self-preservation 🙂
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I like that. That is a really great way to look at it — as a waste of time. That’s so true! Those who have hurt us are a waste of our time and our unforgiveness. 😉 Takes more energy to have a negative feeling towards someone (hold a grudge) than it does to forgive and have the joy and peace of neutrality.
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Absolutely, kendra…..hanging onto all that anger can drain you of all your energy and turn you into a very bitter person. It can also hold you back from enjoying a healthy, positive life. You too are a wise one, my friend 🙂
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SHOHANA posted an update in the group
Forgive and Forget 4 years, 2 months agoNow I can Both! I can forget and also i can forgive!
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Yes its important sometimes to keep good relations.
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you are damn right
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Thanks my friend.
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I don’t always continue having a relationship with those who wrong me, even when I’ve forgiven them. I see it as self preservation, lest they keep taking me for a mug 🙂
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It’s best to keep your distance for people that wrong you again and again.
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That’s my approach in life, @realityspeaks 🙂 I couldn’t trust them again.
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Yes! I think this is the healthy way of forgiveness. You simply learn from the “bad ones” and don’t allow them close enough to hurt you again, but you don’t let them keep you down by harboring unforgiveness. You are a wise one. 😉 I enjoy your posts here!
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Aww kendra, these are very kinds words….thanks 🙂 -and i totally agree with what you say about not letting those feelings keep you prisoner!
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HELLO N WELCOME
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hello my friend!
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i’m there
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