We all keep focus on financial investments for us and our loved one’s future. We never forget to make budgets of our monthly expenses or holiday expenses. Every morning we do not forget to watering plants at the roof of our home. We never miss the date of fee submission of our kids. We eagerly wait for our payments from our employers.Don’t you think these days people are seemingly much focused on financial investment and beautify materialistic things or aspects of life?
On the run of life we all are busy and hardly found time to see that our relationship are either getting stale or dying within because of taking for granted our spouse. I lived a long time in a metro city and saw one out of every two couple are in a bad relationship. The city about which I am mentioning is known for its grand lavish lifestyle. But here you will find that reason of many clashes between couple is either finance or extra marital affair. These days people are earning handsomely even then we feel warmth needed for any healthy relationship is missing between couples. It hurts.
I often wonder if people do not forget to safe them and their loved ones financially by investing their finances in best available options then how they forget that relationship also need investment to get nurture.
To nurture and strengthen any relationship you need to invest quality time by spending alone time together often either your relationship is new or old. You do not need hours to spend with your partner if you have only half an hour then try to utilize it without any kind of external world’s disturbance, I mean no phone calls, no T.V. or Internet.
Talk about those small things that makes your partner happy, about their wish & goals, about their day to day worries,about those things that they are missing in life and do not forget to hold his or her hand, don’t forget to see in his or her eyes, don’t forget to assure you always there for him or her. Spend some time together in watching T.V. when you both are alone or read any magazine together or go for a short walk by holding hands together after dinner. These acts are simple ways to nurture your shriveled relationship.
Do not forget to do investment in your relationship that gives you eternal happiness.