Don’t get surprise, everything has two aspects in life. It is your point of view and mindset that decides which side to see. I have a problem since I was in high school. I forget things, people, events easily or remember partially but the problem was not very severe so nobody in my family took it seriously and never consulted any doctor.
Initially I had very good memory and I was a quick learner. Anything I read once or twice and that got printed in my memory. But do not know what happened, when I was in my high school I realized that I start forgetting things, people or their name and events partially unlike earlier.
It was annoying to me. I try to remember but can’t recall everything about a person whom I met after a long time. If I met a person then either I forget his name or how do I know him? Anybody who has bad memory could understand how I was feeling at that time. But I can’t helped it. This problem started affecting my academic performance in later years. I was sad and once even thought to leave my study after high school but to over come this problem I worked hard. My father helped me and motivated to continue my study. That worked and I completed my masters degree in computer applications.
My life aren’t a smooth ride. I struggled a lot and still struggling on many aspects of life. I encountered many people with dual nature and behavior. They tried to harm me in many ways but I keep myself calm and composed because I forget their behavior with time. Once forgetting things and events annoyed me a lot but later in life at some point it helped me to survive.
Imagine if my memory remained like earlier and I remembered everything. What could happen with me? I am sure it it not only true for me, many of this world could related themselves too.
We all keep focus on financial investments for us and our loved one’s future. We never forget to make budgets of our monthly expenses or holiday expenses. Every morning we do not forget to watering plants at the roof of our home. We never miss the date of fee submission of our kids. We eagerly wait for our payments from our employers.Don’t you think these days people are seemingly much focused on financial investment and beautify materialistic things or aspects of life?
On the run of life we all are busy and hardly found time to see that our relationship are either getting stale or dying within because of taking for granted our spouse. I lived a long time in a metro city and saw one out of every two couple are in a bad relationship. The city about which I am mentioning is known for its grand lavish lifestyle. But here you will find that reason of many clashes between couple is either finance or extra marital affair. These days people are earning handsomely even then we feel warmth needed for any healthy relationship is missing between couples. It hurts.
I often wonder if people do not forget to safe them and their loved ones financially by investing their finances in best available options then how they forget that relationship also need investment to get nurture.
To nurture and strengthen any relationship you need to invest quality time by spending alone time together often either your relationship is new or old. You do not need hours to spend with your partner if you have only half an hour then try to utilize it without any kind of external world’s disturbance, I mean no phone calls, no T.V. or Internet.
Talk about those small things that makes your partner happy, about their wish & goals, about their day to day worries,about those things that they are missing in life and do not forget to hold his or her hand, don’t forget to see in his or her eyes, don’t forget to assure you always there for him or her. Spend some time together in watching T.V. when you both are alone or read any magazine together or go for a short walk by holding hands together after dinner. These acts are simple ways to nurture your shriveled relationship.
Do not forget to do investment in your relationship that gives you eternal happiness.