We all meet different kind of people in our life. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Some value materialistic things, some value spirituality and other value emotions. But did you ever think what one thing that we all need in our life? Did you ever tried to know that what is the most valuable thing you can give to your loved ones?
Time, I think time is the most valuable thing that we all demand from our loved ones. But some people are running behind earning lots of money, some are busy with career building, some give more importance to their social life and hardly found time to spend with their loved ones. All aforementioned kind of people has their own excuses and tries to give different things to their loved ones rather than spending time with them.
After joining online writing communities I met different people across the world and realized that we all have something common in us. We all love our family and like to spend time with them. Emotions don’t differ with country, religion or with skin colour. We all are same at heart and soul. We all need quality time to spend with our loved ones. Nothing could replace value of spending quality time with loved one.
Just think any gift you could take back that you gave to someone except time. Time is once gone, gone forever. You couldn’t take back time you spend with someone. When you spend time with your loved ones, you create sweet memories and strengthen bond between you both.
These days we can see many relationships end up because either of one or both partners do not have enough time to spend together. Kids feel ignored or mislead in life because their parents neglect the importance of spending time together.
We all keep focus on financial investments for us and our loved one’s future. We never forget to make budgets of our monthly expenses or holiday expenses. Every morning we do not forget to watering plants at the roof of our home. We never miss the date of fee submission of our kids. We eagerly wait for our payments from our employers.Don’t you think these days people are seemingly much focused on financial investment and beautify materialistic things or aspects of life?
On the run of life we all are busy and hardly found time to see that our relationship are either getting stale or dying within because of taking for granted our spouse. I lived a long time in a metro city and saw one out of every two couple are in a bad relationship. The city about which I am mentioning is known for its grand lavish lifestyle. But here you will find that reason of many clashes between couple is either finance or extra marital affair. These days people are earning handsomely even then we feel warmth needed for any healthy relationship is missing between couples. It hurts.
I often wonder if people do not forget to safe them and their loved ones financially by investing their finances in best available options then how they forget that relationship also need investment to get nurture.
To nurture and strengthen any relationship you need to invest quality time by spending alone time together often either your relationship is new or old. You do not need hours to spend with your partner if you have only half an hour then try to utilize it without any kind of external world’s disturbance, I mean no phone calls, no T.V. or Internet.
Talk about those small things that makes your partner happy, about their wish & goals, about their day to day worries,about those things that they are missing in life and do not forget to hold his or her hand, don’t forget to see in his or her eyes, don’t forget to assure you always there for him or her. Spend some time together in watching T.V. when you both are alone or read any magazine together or go for a short walk by holding hands together after dinner. These acts are simple ways to nurture your shriveled relationship.
Do not forget to do investment in your relationship that gives you eternal happiness.