Unfolding Mystery Of Life

By shagunK October 17, 2015 Philosophy

Many people believe that life is a mystery and everyone has their own story behind their believe. I have my own. Since childhood I encountered many strange situations and events. Still I do not understand reason behind those situations and events. As a sensitive person I always wanted to be cared and loved. But when anybody loved and cared me I ignored him and when I wanted to be cared from someone specific I got disappointed.

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Life never remained easy to me. There was lots of struggles at every walk and still I am struggling on many fronts. Sometimes it feels I am not made for this world. I feel defeated from life. It seems I do not possess qualities required to live a successful life. I see many people who are living happily have peculiar qualities and behavior that consciously I wouldn’t like to see in me. But I feel those peculiar qualities and behavior help them to use people around them that I found ridiculous.

If people do not like you for being yourself then how you could be happy to show them yourself nice by manipulating everything. But some did this almost life long to control influential people around them who are having money or power. These days it looks like money is everything. If you have unfathomable money people start treating you like you are nicest,  wisest and  greatest person of this world.

Though I meet wonderful persons throughout in my life even then I do not know why often my life stuck among most insensitive, manipulative persons. Is it the way of God to punish me for whatever I did wrong knowingly or unknowingly in this or past life? Are you surprised what I am talking about? You read right I believe in past life and karma.

 

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Forgetting Could Be A Blessing

By shagunK October 13, 2015 Philosophy

Don’t get surprise, everything has two aspects in life. It is your point of view and mindset that decides which side to see. I have a problem since I was in high school. I forget things, people, events easily or remember partially but the problem was not very severe so nobody in my family took it seriously and never consulted any doctor.

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Initially I had very good memory and I was a quick learner. Anything I read once or twice and that got printed in my memory. But do not know what happened, when I was in my high school I realized that I start forgetting things, people or their name and events partially unlike earlier.

It was annoying to me. I try to remember but can’t  recall everything about a person whom I met after a long time. If I met a person then either I forget his name or how do I know him? Anybody who has bad memory could understand how I was feeling at that time. But I can’t helped it. This problem started affecting my academic performance in later years. I was sad and once even thought to leave my study after high school but to over come this problem I worked hard. My father helped me and motivated to continue my study. That worked and I completed my masters degree in computer applications.

My life aren’t a smooth ride. I struggled a lot and still struggling on many aspects of life. I encountered many people with dual nature and behavior. They tried to harm me in many ways but I keep myself calm and composed because I forget their behavior with time. Once forgetting things and events annoyed me a lot but later in life at some point it helped me to survive.

Imagine if my memory remained like earlier and I remembered everything. What could happen with me? I am sure it it not only true for me, many of this world could related themselves too.

 

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How Can I Manage My Time To Write On Blogjob?

By shagunK October 13, 2015 How to

As I mentioned many times that I am working in finance sector offline and except that active on various online sites to earn some extra bucks. But due to some personal reasons I am not able to continue finance sector’s my offline job. So took a break from that job.

After taking leave from finance sector I started a new job in new city. I liked my new job and slowly I was adjusting in my new life routine but my younger kid fell sick. I told my boss about my problem, she grant me leave immediately and never bothered me whereas I joined recently.

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Twenty days later I joined back my job but unfortunately when I came back at home my kid was in fever. I took him and rushed to the doctor’s clinic. Doctor said my kid is used to of me and he is quite sensitive so don’t leave him for longer hours with anybody else, not even with his granny.

This job was important for me but I can’t ignore health of my kids, as they are priority of my life. I can do anything for them but can’t ignore them for anything in my life. Now I started to do my online jobs with perseverance . I have passion for writing and it is like stress buster for me. But seems like my son like gadgets more than me :). Whenever I work online he jump on my laptop and start typing.

My son is chirpy. He all the time wants to play with my cellphone and laptop. He is just few months old so can’t make him understand my problem. I have many sites to work online and by working regularly with discipline I can earn decent amount. I have many things about what I want to write here on blogjob, but my both kids keeps me busy with them. I do not know how to manage my time to work online?

 

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Healthy Living Starts With Keeping Your Body Healthy

By shagunK October 1, 2015 Health

In this fast running world we all are busy with our own daily schedule of life. We hardly found time for anything except our regular routine life. We all have to do many things every day to meet the target of life. Everyone looks running to complete his all the responsibilities in a short span of time. We all perform many kinds of duties to fulfill all the responsibilities of work, family and society.

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Don’t you think that we all are making fool ourselves at some point. What we all want from life? What exactly are our real needs? Did you asked this type of question from yourself ever? Sometimes I feel that most of the world are running in a rat race without realizing that we are doing right or wrong. We all are running behind those materialistic things that are either less or nothing meant at the end of the life.

We all are aspiring happiness, comfort, progress for us and our family. But did you ever thought that we could do all these things only if we are healthy. Take a pause and think about it. How much time you take out of daily routine to keep you healthy? We all know that “Health Is Wealth” and without a good healthy body we can’t enjoy anything in life. Healthy mind lives in healthy body. Thus healthy living starts with keeping your body healthy.

There are many ways of exercise you can opt to keep yourselves healthy. If you do not have much time to do keep yourselves healthy start with breathing exercise. You need only 10 minutes to do it and it helps to clean your body within and rejuvenate. Breathing exercise is easy to learn and most of the people can do it except some specific chronic disease persons. No specific place or equipment you need to do breathing exercise. Some breathing exercises are safe for even pregnant women. With doing it not only you will get relax in 10 minutes but also can start your day with a freshness.

 

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How Important Length Of A Post

By shagunK September 24, 2015 Writing

I never thought much on length of a post. I like to write and post according to the requirement of writing sites where I write. As I confessed many times I am not a professionally trained writer. I like to share about incidences,experiences, people, behavior, society and much more that is happening around me in day to day life. I started online writing through blogspot blog with posts ranging from 200 to 1000 words. Later I found Bubblews and start writing short posts there. I enjoy both kind of writing either it is long post or short post writing.

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Although I read many articles that supports long post writing ranging from 200 to 2500 words. Behind this they give reason that Google searches works on post length basis i.e. top most search results for most of the keywords ranges between 2000 to 2500 words. and longest articles receive more external traffic rather shorter articles. Reference: https://goo.gl/0k53D

But it is not unanimous thought. Some advocate “short is sweet”. They believe that unnecessarily elongating any article could lessen the impact or effectiveness. For reference use Seth Godin’s blog where you will find most of the posts are short in length but they are shared hundred, some posts shared thousands of times.

As I understand you can’t say long post is better than short in terms of getting good traffic or in terms of earnings. It all depends on writer, writing style and content. If article could narrates things in short post there is no need to put filler words just to increase the length of the post. Other factor that affect the length of the post is writing style of the writer. Some writers like to write thing to the point, others like to involve their readers by doing conversation with them. Obviously article wrote in conversational or interacting  mode will be more lengthy.

Do not bother about length of post. Just follow the rules of site where you write and enjoy your writing.

 

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Investment In Relationship

By shagunK September 23, 2015 How To Nurture Relationship

We all keep focus on financial investments for us and our loved one’s future. We never forget to make budgets of our monthly expenses or holiday expenses. Every morning we do not forget to watering plants at the roof of our home. We never miss the date of fee submission of our kids. We eagerly wait for our payments from our employers.Don’t you think these days people are seemingly much focused on financial investment and beautify materialistic things or aspects of life?

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On the run of life we all are busy and hardly found time to see that our relationship are either getting stale or dying within because of taking for granted our spouse. I lived a long time in a metro city and saw one out of every two couple are in a bad relationship. The city  about which I am mentioning is known for its grand lavish lifestyle. But here you will find that reason of many clashes between couple is either finance or extra marital affair. These days people are earning handsomely even then we feel warmth needed for any healthy relationship is missing between couples. It hurts.

I often wonder if people do not forget to safe them and their loved ones financially by investing their finances in best available options then how they forget that relationship also need investment to get nurture.

To nurture and strengthen any relationship you need to invest quality time by spending alone time together often either your relationship is new or old. You do not need hours to spend with your partner if you have only half an hour then try to utilize it without any kind of external world’s disturbance, I mean no phone calls, no T.V. or Internet.

Talk about those small things that makes your partner happy, about their wish & goals, about their day to day worries,about those things that they are missing in life and do not forget to hold his or her hand, don’t forget to see in his or her eyes, don’t forget to assure you always there for him or her. Spend some time together in watching T.V. when you both are alone or read any magazine together or go for a short walk by holding hands together after dinner. These acts are simple ways to nurture your shriveled relationship.

Do not forget to do investment in your relationship that gives you eternal happiness.

 

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How To Get An Idea To Write Your Next Post

By shagunK September 23, 2015 Getting Idea To Write Next

I read many times some people wonder what to write in their next post. But others are keeping writing many posts per day on various sites. At beginning of my online work it baffled me that what keeps some people so active and they keep posting articles in a flow and why others stuck in writing one or two every day?

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But with experience I realized it that if you love to write and write what you love you will hardly face writer’s block. I am not saying you will never face writer’s block, you could face but frequency will be less. Since we all are humans and apart from writing every day we deal with many things or situations in life. So do not bother about writer’s block, it is common in creative people.

Everyone use their tricks to get the idea to write their next post, I have my own. I like to read and write about family, relationship, kids, parenting, work at home, making money online. When I get to know anything thing about above mentioned topics most probably that becomes topic of my next post.

When I start writing about above mentioned topics I found no need to look at word count, usually it increases from the required posts limits on writing sites. But when I try to write about those topic that doesn’t engage my mind and heart I keep watching word counter. It is obvious if you have knowledge and passion about anything you could write on that easily.

But it is not a complete picture. If you do not have knowledge and passion for any particular topic doesn’t mean you can’t develop it. We can develop interest on any other topic by researching, reading good articles on that topic. Sometimes we have knowledge even then we feel problem in writing due to many reasons like lack of practice, lack of concentration etc. When I feel lack of concentration, I keep reading posts of my online friends.

Keep reading! Keep writing my friends!

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How To Change Name Of Your Site And Tagline On BlogJob

By shagunK September 22, 2015 blogjob

I am not very old or experienced on blogjob but I like this site so love to spend time to read articles and explore many other sections of it especially forums & rewards section. I like to visit forums and if I can help someone I feel more than happy. Since I am not a professionally trained for online jobs but leaned many things through help of other online users, so just try to give back what I received from the world :D.

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I read many user’s query about how to edit or change name of sites and taglines of the sites they created. So a thought came to my mind to write about it as an update so that users could read it and help each other. Then suddenly  a question raised in my mind why not you write it as an “How To” article and publish it so that when users search about it then can find help from this.

How To Change Name Of Sites And Tagline:

1.After login go to the Activity Tab or any other tab.

2. Now you will see My Sites tab at upper right corner. When you place your cursor on My Sites       tab you will see list of all sites you created on blogjob.

3. Move cursor on that site name which you want to change.Now you will see other options on         placing cursor on name of that site like this : https://prntscr.com/8jahfe

4. Now click on dashboard option of the site that you want to change.

5. On reaching the dashboard of desired site place cursor on your Site’s Name tab. Now you see       Visit Site option like this: https://prntscr.com/8jakg6 , click on visit site option.

6. Now you are on your site page. Here you will your site name, when you place cursor on your         site name a drop down menu will open and one of the option you will find there is                             Customize like this : https://prntscr.com/8jalj0 , click on customize option.

7. After clicking on Customize  you will see Site Title & Tagline tab, click on it.

8. Now you will see two boxes, one is of Site Title and other is of Tagline like                                           this: https://prntscr.com/8jarho . Now click cursor on either of the boxes and change them as         per your wish.

9. After changing Site name and tagline save changes by clicking on save button.

Hope it will help some of you.

 

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Do You Feel It Is Difficult To Manage Your Anger?

By shagunK September 22, 2015 Anger

I felt it many times that it is difficult to manage my anger. I want to control or minimize level of my anger in some particular situations but failed sometimes. I do not know what makes me so angry in some situations. Being a woman I like to be humble and well behaved.And I lived my life decently in a peaceful environment. But life gone through some changes seven years back. Since then I had faced many kind of mental, emotional torture.

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I trusted a dishonest person and paid for it. I not only lost my self confidence but also start thinking about killing myself. But God’s planning was different and one by one met two angels in my life. Both angels start changing my life slowly. I was suffocating in a bad environment since last seven years and no one was there to help me out. These angels gave me courage to pull out of this situation.

I have started recovering from that trauma but still face difficulty in managing my anger. I do not harm anyone but I shout loud and cry a lot that exhaust me badly. I am committed to control my anger but when I try to control it I face headache. Some people around me worsen the situation. They know many things I gone through even then they hurt me with sarcasm. I can’t change all the world who like to gossip about bad things or events, so let them do it.

I am planning to take meditation sessions to make myself like before seven years I was, calm, cool, happy, enthusiastic person. I know it is not easy but my two angels give me a lot of strength and love to do this. And I want to live, to love and to be loved.

If you are too facing problem problem in managing your anger look around you there could be your angel who will give support to see positive things in life and will help you to leave negative things.

 

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It Is Not Easy To Be A Woman

By shagunK September 22, 2015 Philosophy

Being a woman I know women face many challenges on every walk of life. It is not at all easy to be a women. I read a post of one of my online friend  in which she did a comparison of situation of women in her country(U.S.) and other countries. At some point she is right but it is not a complete picture of any country or society dear friend. She said in some countries women are treated  like a good for nothing and in her country if women is treated badly they call the cops but you know that crime against women is still not stopped in any country. Crime rate against women is less or more exist in all countries.

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If you go through women life you will realize either women are from developed countries or from a developing countries we not only managing our home, kids, relatives, finances but also do compromises for balancing everything in life. As compared to women men live their life with more freedom and less boundaries.

 

I feel it is tough to be a women doesn’t mean I don’t like to be a women, I am proud to be a woman. But I want to say that why this kind of imbalance between men and women’s life. Why not both are treated equally by the society, why not both compromise equally to balance the life, why not both share equal responsibilities to raise the kids, why not men are expected to make a good relationship with their in-laws?

 

Many questions arise in my mind sometimes. I know some of you are feeling like me but not all. Because it is not a universal truth, some men are really does all the things that a women do for their kids, family, spouse. One of my online friend from Pakistan is doing job in a school and his wife is working in a bank mentioned many times in his posts that he co operates  his wife in household cores and supports every walk of life. I really find him a gentleman. I wish all the men could be like this.

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