I have recently viewed a lesson or some very inspirational speaking by Eric Worre, yes he knows what he talks about because several years ago he started like most others in network marketing, had a struggle with it, but did not give up.
A lot of people do what he told about them, they do not take action of fear, they expect more than they give etc.
I choose when I am offered by someone or from various people, to listen shortly or give 100% attention to what they have to share, I also use my intuition, and then to hear what they have of value to give, and I do that because deep within I know everyone on the planet are not in for wasting their time, well some are because of depression or repetitively worrying.
No matter where we are or have been, we have been listening to the people who have shared what they wanted to share, no matter how bad or good it may have been.
A cofactor would be some physical internalized etc psychiatric drugs. It could be too much sugar or anything at all that can be bought commercially.
This post is not to attack anyone, but to enlighten of what I mean.
To listen to someone, and it does not matter who it is, we first take action when the one and the thing shared are listening to.
If you are stuck or believe you are or trying the harder to go further as I also sometimes are, then I have to be in your face and tell you, that you are not listening and have not been listening to the correct people who play a certain game, and I am and have been in the same place.
I love to discover things about myself, and to listen 100% to people will only practice our intuition and increase the way well sell or make people buy.
The secret of it all is listen, put a picture in our mind for understanding and then share when information is gathered for completion for sharing.