“To make decisions – https://tinyurl.com/pc5mowe – is hardly what anyone learns, they need education”.
This has been a challenge for me on various occasions as I seem to have a hard time in choosing between two things, mostly because I want both, or I have a hidden or suppressed idea of having control over things or greed. Yes it might seem weird because I believe it is. The best thing I then take from my education at the Proctor Gallagher Institute is I have all resources of making decisions, though I see it not as a problem by that, I see it as I see options in both parties or directions. I hope you understand me otherwise you will have to comment on this one.
First thing first, when taking a look at the options in both, I see it as things I search for in one of the two, and to be honest and you might have heard about choosing between two women with almost equal qualities, yes, for me it can and have been rough, I guess many men etc can relate. This could be perceived as a help-blog or whatever we can call it. I see it as I can guide myself to actually making a decision whether it will be the one or the other. So when I go for the options and cons, I will see things in a new perspective.
The reason I do this thing to aim for pros and cons is something I had from a friend in 1999, yes, that is awhile ago, and at this point I find it very helpful, and if there actually is someone in the same group as me who can’t decide but in the moment. To mention the current moment of a decision is of course becoming emotionally involved in the one, and since the other could be somewhere else could be an advantage, and since I know ideas entertained in our conscious mind will eventually take place as habitual ideas in our subconscious. Maybe it is the conscious control of the ideas that scares the hell out of me since I want both, but will have to decide at one point and the decision will be made no matter what.