“Everyone wants to be appreciated. – https://tinyurl.com/pc5mowe – So if you appreciate someone, don’t keep it a secret”.
This quote comes very close to me as I sometimes have a hard time doing it, well it’s not that hard to go to someone and say; you know what, you’re really awesome. But sometimes it can scare people really well, and they will look at one like it’s a retard speaking to them, that is not the purpose. The quote goes into the emotion of impression of increase, and I can promise you I am into coaching myself about leaving people with an impression of an increase. Another thing is to appreciate things or people or both, we should never hesitate to express it, but we should do it a way, so we can explain in few words why we appreciate people, well in my case I can become very obsessed with people so I give them too much attention, and that can be considered too demanding for people. When I put attention to things they almost become very real, understood that way, that I desire to make things complete, though everything will remain incomplete, you can call me a perfectionist but that’s a bit over the top.
When I appreciate things and people, I can say it, but not to many people. I do on occasion keep it a secret because it is stored in my sub-conscious as a paradigm, and that needs to be changed. Why do we all keep it a secret that we want to appreciate people? Why do we try to express things we fear etc. rejection, we go to a person, and yet fear stops us, the thing I want to point out is that, people both you and I loves to be appreciated, and we love it till our paradigm says it’s enough, but if we get used to it then there has to be a huge portion of appreciation to feed us, and yet, just a small word can do it.