Decision making

Always giving

I have come across a quote that mentions about giving. When we give we do it because we have filled ourselves up with whatever we have put into our cup, that cup is our mind.

The purpose of this is to create an image of you and me in your conscious thinking mind, but how do we do that? Let me tell you, it is not a question of how we do it. It is rather a matter of what we do.

When we give help to someone whether it is family, friends, acquaintances or someone who are doing service for us, we give them something, we give them attention. This is the first in giving, the attention is one thing, our attitude is something else.

Going for an attitude then it is something regards to how we are, right there I am talking about our mood, our conscious thinking and subconscious programming. Our subconscious programming is our habits, it is what we do and how we go about doing them.

The attitude of giving always correspond with what we have been taught since our own childhood, so whatever has been brought to us there, we actually give.

Some other thing and cofactor is the person we see and give to, how we see that person is how we treat them. I have a little advice regarding to that, always start give attention and make it a habit of saying to self; that is good.

So now that we have a little more overview of how giving works, not in-depth though, but we can start sharing which we should and would do every day. Just imagine you are turning the roles around and start empathizing with the one and ones you are sharing with.

I myself want to share, and we are talking on a dream-level here, so what I have to do, is to run the programming of sharing like an obsession, yes an obsession.

In between two

“To make decisions – – is hardly what anyone learns, they need education”.

This has been a challenge for me on various occasions as I seem to have a hard time in choosing between two things, mostly because I want both, or I have a hidden or suppressed idea of having control over things or greed. Yes it might seem weird because I believe it is. The best thing I then take from my education at the Proctor Gallagher Institute is I have all resources of making decisions, though I see it not as a problem by that, I see it as I see options in both parties or directions. I hope you understand me otherwise you will have to comment on this one.

First thing first, when taking a look at the options in both, I see it as things I search for in one of the two, and to be honest and you might have heard about choosing between two women with almost equal qualities, yes, for me it can and have been rough, I guess many men etc can relate. This could be perceived as a help-blog or whatever we can call it. I see it as I can guide myself to actually making a decision whether it will be the one or the other. So when I go for the options and cons, I will see things in a new perspective.

The reason I do this thing to aim for pros and cons is something I had from a friend in 1999, yes, that is awhile ago, and at this point I find it very helpful, and if there actually is someone in the same group as me who can’t decide but in the moment. To mention the current moment of a decision is of course becoming emotionally involved in the one, and since the other could be somewhere else could be an advantage, and since I know ideas entertained in our conscious mind will eventually take place as habitual ideas in our subconscious. Maybe it is the conscious control of the ideas that scares the hell out of me since I want both, but will have to decide at one point and the decision will be made no matter what.

The liftoff trinity 3 experience

“Every system needs updates and upgrades, new systems will rise and others will go obsolete”.

Coming out of my sleep or mental journey as a status of why I chose to sit here has ended with a question, the liftoff is coming closer, so I begin to elevate my anxiety for how it might turn out.Ibecome a bit stressed. The mind takes a wander again as I am not used to this, but so are many others around me, they also are not used to this. This is an encore event. The experience of launching a rocket like this is phenomenal as I haven’t told anyone what or who is in there to be sent out.

It could be me, as I will take a quick tour in the cockpit, having this instant communication and await for green light to liftoff. The experience from inside the cockpit is kind a claustrophobia, not because I have that but I would imagine sitting in there and it is like a one shot you have, only one opportunity. Everything should be and are in order, the vision is to enter our vacuum of space, with a lot of goals onwards it. You know it can be sensed if you have that strong imagination, it becomes very easy to create pictures out of nothing and see them from various angles, that is how it is done my way, your way will be shown.

Taking the mind back to the communication between the control-center and our rocket for launch, then it takes a bit of an imaginary experience to convert images to the feelings but I know it is possible.The way I do it is to explain myself as many details as possible, so it becomes more real, and then just keep repeating the image so it becomes attached, that is a little secret to make things real from imagination. My question is then if we can place such a story in our memory, then how many stories can we store?


I felt like I had to open up for this one as many people does it, and I know why. I also desire to eliminate this procrastination so much that it becomes a habit to decide quicker, well, I think I actually know why now. First to let me explain my procrastination, because it might open up your decision-making in what to do to make decisions faster and keep you motivated, so I do it for the both of us. When I look at my own procrastination I often believe I doubt on things, to not add enough faith into getting the job done. The missing out of determination.

The best way to eliminate procrastination is to study to get a job done the fastest and most effective way. I am actually very often in that position where I will get a job done quicker than most, and that is by playing with my mental muscles. The what I have done when I had procrastination was to see a quick way like so many others, is to do as little as possible and yet to get a massive job done. You see those two does not go hand in hand, because when we want more and give less that is when the whole circulation goes into backspeed, and that does not work.

I have this document from Life Success Group of Companies, which is now called the Proctor Gallagher institute, titled decision. Now that I still know that I have it, I better re-read it so I become more and more aware of what and why, so in time I will become so effective that I can teach others as I always do, to make decisions fast. I desire for myself foremost to be able to eliminate procrastination so much I can use my limited time on this planet most effective and teach others, and a bonus for myself to get things done right away.

Procrastination is a habit – – and that can be turned around by learning decisionmaking”.

Biting nails

This is to some very disgusting and to some an everyday habit as they might not even consider, biting nails. I have done it most of my life but, I have found material to stop it or to limit the habit and, in time to change the habit to something else, that is to market health and let it become the new habit. When I got that new material to study what nails are for and why they grow, I stumbled on upon few things as I normally do when I study to discover. My hope was and is that I would apparently would get a chock in biting nails that I would stop.

The material I got was very revealing and to me informative but not as great as I thought it would be, and yes everything takes time I know that for sure because I coach in it and therefore I know it. The nail study-paper is telling why nails sit where they sit and actually what nails grow first and quickest, also if the nails is being bitten in they grown stronger. This is weird knowledge for me right now as I am learning unconscious competent and shifting to conscious incompetent, but it will quickly change again as I know I have to impress myself in giving a chock so to speak.

I wonder if there is a therapist in stop biting nails or something like it, because someone is always better at do certain things than another one is. The nail material I got is for me only the beginning, and I believe that when I get the right points of view of nails etc. then I will change the habit, that might be something in the world of biochemists. To realize what happens when biting nails, I think that the real function of the nail has to be studied.

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