You are probably wondering what I mean by the title, and it has something to do with anxiety and how to overcome it, not the how but the why and what verbs. You see, when we ask for how to do things, automatically an unconscious light is turned on inside our brain that says, don’t do it or should I. the wrong thing or angle is we often ask how for a recipe to do things, but the tough one to do is we will copy others, we are emulating others in our hopes that we can do it like them, but can we do it like them or does it scare us the most?
I have then discovered that if I want people to etc. sell for me or do the job for me, I can see they express the easy part of the job, and they just do it, but I don’t. The trick is the more one person does it, the person becomes aware of how they can do it, and better yet what to do to do it. I see the how action-word, people desire to know how and not what, or we simply forget the what, and focus on the how, and totally forgets the why. The why is of course the purpose of why we do the thing we want to do.
When I was in coaching at Proctor Gallagher Institute, I was in small periods enlightened on why we should do things and not exactly how. It was more the what and why because the how is always and I underline the word always, because every human being is gifted with the same mental tools for creation. But often we get the wrong education to be convinced we should live from the outside and in, instead of inside out which we actually do, but are not aware of it.
“It is not important by how things are done – https://tinyurl.com/pqdfvgw – the what is more important”.