I have not always wondered but asked myself sometimes, in the courses of personal development, the how in the process of growth what is its role, and why do so many fail when it comes to the how in the process? The how is the action part as far as I have been studied myself into. If I would ask myself how I would do things, then I begin to think of the action parts I have to take, then deep inside as my intuition comes before thinking, then something tells me or asks me; what should I do? Because one thing is how we do things, the important thing is what we want to do.

The what, is then the first and an actuality because we might have an assumption of how we can do a thing, though we always, and I repeat always should know what to do. I can define the what for an eternity because there is always a new way of things to do. What is more important in my eyes is what we are going to do, because it sort of lay the foundation of what is to come, we should be thinking of what or of course the assignment of job to be done.

So after we have defined what “the how” is, and “the what” is, I would be curious to know why we should do the thing we have to do. The “why” is the purpose oriented or direction, the why is what gets us in action actually. The why is the purpose, and to sum it up, then the what is sort of the blueprint, and the how is the instruction just like when an actor reads a script, then he is directed by a person to know how to do things, and what to do mostly, and the why is the purpose.