This subject is more about Facebook and the other major social network as google plus. When I state those then I have been into the studies of why especially these are so huge and have a certain impact. Now that I have a history of studying human behavior and I do as others when I want to build a connection I have had very few people writing to me and made sure we had just few things or just one thing in common. If I were in your shoes and you were in mine so to speak, to put it the understandable way, then we seek an understanding depending on the communication through questions and answers, could we be a match to make connection. This situation is the one I search for, and some mutual interest. It is becoming very obvious I guess.So what I am experiencing very often on Facebook is that, I have people just hitting add with absolutely no interest of writing or communication for that matter.
The meaning of, pounding at the door, gets a new meaning or purpose when I get an add or the plus one friend request. I have developed a habit from the professional network LinkedIn. I think the reason why it is called linked in, is because we are linking to new people through our current connections, that is my theory, you could hold something else, which I understand, you can also comment if you have a view or opinion of it thank you.
The message between two brand new unknown connections in my opinion, is the building-block for establishment of a network, I have been looking into that for some time now. I mean wouldn’t you agree that writing a message maybe before sending an application or add as friend would be reasonable instead of imaging someone you have never seen before, would walk up to you and ask; would you like to be my friend? What is your take on it?