I have noticed a growing trend lately and its not a good trend. Women pushing other women away due to trying to be dominate.
I am not a follower and I never have been, But I don`t “tell” people what to do either. I get enough of being bossed around from men already so I won`t do that to others.
If I am to lead then I will ask that no one work any harder than I do or to do anything I would not do myself.
But this past few years I have noticed a few women that are in my life that wants to ” tell” me what to do. I can`t go for that.
One lady wants to ” run” my business and I mean my real, make a living business, But I have always pushed aside her remarks and kept working as I seen fit. Then every time I went to a rental she would run out to tell on people, but I couldn`t believe her because she was known to …. make up stuff too. She would nag me about the tenants yard and he drives down the hill through their own yard, I asked them to stop and he did. Then her kid began to do the same thing to my property that she asked my tenants not to do on my property. I actually had to put up a barrier because my tenant was upset that he could not use his yard because of her kid. Anyways I did not do as she told me so now she don`t like me.
Another woman that I know but I`m not really friends with her got mad a few weeks ago because I did not see fit that her child put my family in danger and made this statement ” My husband will be down to talk to Tony” First of all Tony has nothing to do with what I say and do, or what I enforce on my property, I should have said that but I didn`t, I just let it go and I have yet to see that husband. I seen this woman today and she stuck her nose up in the air.
There is no love lost because I can live without both of those women being in my life.
The pattern I am seeing is if I don`t agree with their behavior then they don`t like me, I let them do stuff around my property till it either got dangerous or it was a situation of ” do as I say and not as I do.”
Of all the young ladies I know I am always talking them up and making them feel like someone, even the older ladies that feel old and worthless I try my best to make them feel better. But I am just not understanding these women that are my age or around my age. I feel like they think life is a contest of who wins.
But I think the real problem is that I know how to say “No” and they have always gotten their way in life.
What is your opinion?
By Andria Perry
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