Public Apology – Hurt Feeling Never Intended

I will not say any names because I am not like that but I was told that I hurt someones feelings. Instead of coming directly to me and asking what I meant I was turned into the owner of Blogjob for a spam comment.

I had assumed that since me and this person was face book friends, that she knows I have a sense of humor, or at least I think I do, and the comment was left as that, joking, but she took it as an intentional attack.

She then deleted forty six comments I had left on her blogs because I did read her blogs, and deleted the friendship.

If anyone knows me they know I am not a mean person and I would never intentionally hurt anyones feels. And I most certainly would not air dirty laundry publicly because I feel that is in bad taste, But for some reason I feel like I should defend myself.

Most of the people I read and comment on there blogs are people I have known since 2013 when I first began to write at Bubblews, ( bubblews ALWAYS paid me, I never had any missing payments) and we have been on many other sites together. I play well with others.

Yes I am a landlady and some people must assume I am mean because of that but I`m not. If I was I would not have tenants stay since 1999, another for 7 years and they moved because they bought a house. Actually 4 out of 6 of the rentals the tenants have been there well over two years. Sure I complain and I use MY blog to let people see what it is like to have rentals, I do leave out some of the nasty stuff but I want people to know that people won`t always pay rent, some come up with the strangest excuses not to pay rent, and some people are not clean.

I write to unwind, its my place where people are nice and I don`t have to worry about being the boss at work or listening to excuses. I can play so to speak. Tell everyone good morning or good night. To tell someone they are pretty or they can do what they put their mind to.

On Mylot, yes the same person turned in someone there too! I read a post from an old bubble friends that made me laugh, someone hit a mud puddle and soaked him, he did not think it was funny but at the end of the day everything worked out. I mentioned how I had done that as a teen and at the time it was funny. But as a adult I got it back! someone drowned me the same way. His reply was ” you deserved it!” Yes he could have gotten mad but he knew I was just being honest and happy.

So to closed this I want to say ” I am sorry if I offended you and I will not ever be back in your life again.”

By Andria Perry
Art By Andria Perry

14 thoughts on “Public Apology – Hurt Feeling Never Intended”

  1. I am sorry this happened to you. I know you are a very honest and caring person. You give to others because that is how you are.

    Please do not let one person who did not handle things well stop you from visiting blogs or commenting.

    I am very sorry this has happened. You are a good friend.

    I was always paid by Bubblews as well. I left because they were being shady and getting worse. I knew one day they would up and close shop with out a word.

  2. I am sorry that happened to you. I know you since EV (not sure if we met on Bubblews or commented on your post there). I know you are a nice person. When I first read that you are a Landlady, my impression was you are bitchy but I was wrong. Chin up my friend. You did not do anything wrong, she just took it seriously. 🙂

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